lilbelle Posted November 9, 2009 Posted November 9, 2009 wow. so earlier I thought I might just die. I cried it out. Just let the tears flow. TIP: start cutting some onions to get them started and let it all out from there. Anyway, did that and now it's like all that anxiety is gone. All of a sudden I'm feeling strangly calm and I'm praying this feeling lasts throughout the week. I let myself think of him and bring in the memories all day and it hurt. It killed really. Anyway girls, get those onions out and unleash.
GrayClouds Posted November 9, 2009 Posted November 9, 2009 wow. so earlier I thought I might just die. I cried it out. Just let the tears flow. TIP: start cutting some onions to get them started and let it all out from there. Anyway, did that and now it's like all that anxiety is gone. All of a sudden I'm feeling strangly calm and I'm praying this feeling lasts throughout the week. I let myself think of him and bring in the memories all day and it hurt. It killed really. Anyway girls, get those onions out and unleash. andif it comes back cry again. Fighting the pain is so much more work then facing it and letting it go. Congrats.
USMCHokie Posted November 9, 2009 Posted November 9, 2009 I'm glad you see the value of releasing the emotions...and yes, there's certainly a strangely calm feeling that comes after you've let it all out...just imagine if you bottled all that up over the days and weeks and months like some people do...thinking that they're being "strong" or "over it" when they really aren't...imagine what kind of sh** show that would be...I won't say that this would be the last time...maybe it will be...but it's good that you've figured out something that makes you feel just a little bit better... And hey...I would hope that some of us guys are comfortable enough with ourselves that we can cut an onion or two...
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