1994 Posted November 8, 2009 Posted November 8, 2009 I'm in a LDR for a couple months nows. My gf lives only 40 mins. away but I only get to see her on the weekends because of work. We had some problems. I'm sarcastic in a good way but she gets hurt by what I say, and I've stopped. She thinks I'm jealous. I admit I am, but not once have I've ever accused her of cheating or doing anything. I trust her and believe everything she tells me. She has several problems which hurt my feelings. If we are at family gathering she just left me behind and I didn't know anyone. She wouldn't make me anything to eat even after her mother told her to. By the way, I'm at her parents house. I have to admit we both have tried to change for each other. I'm the type of person if I'm upset 1 second the next I'm over it. She on the other hand if she gets upset she will be upset for a week, and make me pay. I support her in everything she does compared to her prior bfs and she does the same for me. We both agree we are tired of the fighting which at the end of the day seem not that important, but she just can't get over it. Today I broke up with her. I told her because I didn't want to hurt her anymore. I couldn't be the perfect guy she wants me to be. I love her and I don't want to be without her. If we broke up I wouldn't hurt her anymore. Plus, I wouldn't have to deal with the issues of losing her, hurting her or trying to be that perfect guy. She told me she wasn't ready to let me go. She told me she could deal not talking to me on the phone, but she couldn't deal with not seeing me on the weekends. She told me she's also tired of our problems. We talked about how much we have in common. She told me we could start new with no problems, but I told her there's no point because we are the same people. We agreed to try and work it out. She asked me if someone else came along would I leave her and I told her no. I asked the same thing she didn't even say anything. I was so ready to move on but after I saw that she really does love me now I feel so lonely and helpless. I know it's not going to be greener on the other side even if I find someone else. I miss her so much.
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