what do i do?

[wendy37]

i really dont know where to start but im in a real head mess over my ex..we got back together in feb this year after he lied and messed me about and was being totally abusive to me via texts saying he was with other women,playing on my insecuritys big time...anyway i cut all contact and he came begging me this year in total tears and saying he would make everything up to me...there is so much more than this but im just giving a rough outline.anyway,basicly he was lying to me from that day onwards as he was still intouch with a girl from some dating site but he told me to dig so i did and thats how i found this out...there was loads he was saying,like saying he was comming off facebook but he never did...when i found that out he had been on there saying he was single and asking mates to fix him up with women ect ect...so its finished again.yet hes been yexting me for the last 5 weeks being really really abusive and has had me in total bits that im gonna have to get some councilling now.i have responded but just by trying to keep things nice but he just keeps going into one at me...i have sent him a text today just saying that i hope one day we can be friends but its been pending all day which isnt like him so im guessing hes with his new gf and is doing the same to her as he did with me which is keeping his fone off!! i just dont understand atall what the hell is going on..someone help me here

[ElChup]

To be honest he sounds like a bit of a scumbag.

[wendy37]

he is being,but i cant understand why i cant leave him to get on with it...he was awful when my dad died and it feels like hes come back for revenge...everything i say to him he accuses me of playing mind games!! yet im not..i just dont understand and just feel im losing it..i hung on to his every word which was all lies and broken promises!

[GrayClouds]

Read the following :

 

The No Contact Guide

So you want a second chance?

 

You will be ok, it is always hard losing a bad habit, and this guy is that.