Boundary Problem Posted November 9, 2009 Posted November 9, 2009 The other thing that I just thought of is that perhaps all this uncertainty is due to the fact that she has mixed feelings about you. She's 28 and her biological clock tells her that it's time to get married and start a family. However, you are not her "perfect guy", so she's torn between settling for you and holding out a little longer for a chance to finally get swept off her feet by the knight in shining armor, as slim as that chance may be. Perhaps that's what she means when she talks about her goals/dreams and not wanting to be stuck in a relationship [with you]. All I know is that her actions are hurting you. And I lost interest in anything she had to say about an hour ago. Her actions are screaming that she doesn't love you and we know she is hurting you. One day you are going to hit a wall, and say "no more".
Author mrgerbick Posted November 9, 2009 Author Posted November 9, 2009 When we last spoke we were arguing and she did say that she doesn't know what love has in store for her, but it is not this. She said its not arguing all of the time, but yet she fails to realize what we are even arguing about. She fails to realize that at a certain point I need things from this relationship as well.
Author mrgerbick Posted November 9, 2009 Author Posted November 9, 2009 It probably doesn't help that when we were arguing she was yelling at me at the top of her lungs telling me to let her out of the car. I stopped the car and told her to get out of my life, and that she is a f**king head case. I also called her a b*tch as she was walking away. I am not normally like that, but i feel I was brought to that point.
Boundary Problem Posted November 9, 2009 Posted November 9, 2009 It probably doesn't help that when we were arguing she was yelling at me at the top of her lungs telling me to let her out of the car. I stopped the car and told her to get out of my life, and that she is a f**king head case. I also called her a b*tch as she was walking away. I am not normally like that, but i feel I was brought to that point. Quite honestly do you think your love will fix her? Do you think that your strength will be enough to fix her? If no, then she needs to do some work on herself. You and I both know that she won't. So .......... isn't it over?
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