Hyundai_Genesis Posted November 8, 2009 Posted November 8, 2009 Okay..i've been talking/dating this guy for a month..and a few days ago he asked me to be his girlfriend. Just an FYI, during this month all we did was kiss. He tried to get me to give him oral but i refused to do anything sexual without being in a relationship. He asked me to be his girl..the day after I texted him and never got a response (Fine, work is busy) i understand that..but never got anything. texted him in the evening ..nothing. The following day, hadnt heard from him all day and then he txted me asking where i was, when i told him i was driving to go have a ladies night out he said "are u sure it's with girls" and then that was it..he was getting ready to go out with the boys. If i hadnt had plans, im sure he wouldve asked to get together. Today..havent heard from him and it's almost 4pm. What i'm getting at here is...Am i being used? Did i get asked to be his gf ..just so he can eventually try and use it as an excuse to get laid? ...Correct me if i'm wrong but when you first jump into a relationship you wanna see that person as often as you can, you call/text them ...I'm thinking of letting a few days pass and if this continues to just break it off...I hate to break it off because i really like him but i feel like a single girl. It's ridiculous... Advice..thoughts....greatly appreciated please and thank you.
xoxo88 Posted November 12, 2009 Posted November 12, 2009 He doesn't seem very interesetd in this relationship. Like you said, in the beggining of the relationship you're so eager to see your partner, talk, text, etc. You should have a talk with him and decide afterwards what to do. Maybe he's got some problems or maybe he's really not interested. Good luck!
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