fiser360 Posted November 8, 2009 Posted November 8, 2009 So my ex of 5 months, her new boyfriend just broke up with her. She called last night to tell me that she now knew how I felt when she left me. Now, I don't know what is going to happen...but I wonder if she is looking for a reconciliation between us. We were together for 3 years. Any ideas?
lostmirthfulness Posted November 8, 2009 Posted November 8, 2009 Each case is unique, but I would caution you to not get your hopes up at all. Part of me says this might be a good thing, but in my case, I would let it go.
Author fiser360 Posted November 8, 2009 Author Posted November 8, 2009 Well, if that is the case. I would not be jumping right back in. We would definitely be sitting down and talking everything out and resolving any open issues before we continued. Any other suggestions?
lostmirthfulness Posted November 8, 2009 Posted November 8, 2009 umm, she called to let you know that she knew how you felt. I am assuming you were broken up about this gal. Meaning that shes broken up about her recent ex. This whole situation doesn't sit right with me to be honest. Like I said, I urge you to practice extreme caution. I personally might not even bother one bit. How long were you two together? How long after the split was she seeing someone else?
ElChup Posted November 8, 2009 Posted November 8, 2009 Well if she didn't feel very much when she let you go, and feels more for the new guy, then that doesn't say mcuh for her chances of being happy in a relationship with you. I say that unless there were reasons she broke it off with you that can be fixed, then you should stay away.
GrayClouds Posted November 8, 2009 Posted November 8, 2009 (edited) So my ex of 5 months, her new boyfriend just broke up with her. She called last night to tell me that she now knew how I felt when she left me. Now, I don't know what is going to happen...but I wonder if she is looking for a reconciliation between us. We were together for 3 years. Any ideas? es she will wat to get back together so she does not have to feel bad and then she will move on after she stop hurting and remembers why she left in the first place. She is not saying she should have never toss you aside she is saying she now knows what it is like to be tossed aside, that is all about her feeling bad not feeling love for you. BE VERY CAREFUL. Edited November 8, 2009 by GrayClouds
Author fiser360 Posted November 9, 2009 Author Posted November 9, 2009 Lostmirthfulness: We were together for 3 years. About a month after the split she started dating this new guy. I really appreciate the responses guys. It is giving me a lot to think about. If the time comes around, I will definitely attempt to approach with extreme caution. By no means do I just want to jump into our old relationship. Our problems were few, but she thought we "bickered" too much. But it was always over silly things and we were quick to say we were sorry and make up. But since we had been together for so long, I guess she just assumed the grass was greener on the otherside, and thought she would give it a try. Hope to hear more from everyone!
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