reelbigfish Posted November 8, 2009 Posted November 8, 2009 Background: Dated a girl for 2.5 months - she had just broken up with her ex of 4 years. Implemented NC on Monday of this week and she's broken it several times. Fast forward to last night. She texted me last night and we texted just a bit (I know I should have just ignored her). She got a little bit pissy with me so I stopped talking to her again and put her back into NC. I also left town this weekend just to kind of get away but all she knows is that I went to south carolina (from virginia). I woke up this morning and started driving after cutting off her communication last night and she texted me again this morning. She said exactly this - "Don't respond to this...I am sorry if I was insensitive last night - I was just having some other things going on and was stressed and you were just the last straw". She sent another text a few minutes later after I chose not to respond that said "And I didn't mean the things I said so I hope you can forgive me sometime." This was all this morning around 11 AM (It is now 9:00 PM - 10 hours later). Should I respond to this at all? I almost feel like this was a big power shift to my side as she is the one apologizing. Should I respond at all to this or continue the NC? Remember this was a very short term relationship (2.5 months) and her ex of 4 years is still in the picture to some degree but he lives 11 hours away now that she's moved down here. Yes I do want to patch things up with her. Thanks guys!
brokenrightnow Posted November 8, 2009 Posted November 8, 2009 Don't respond. Try your best not to respond. I promise you, she will text you again and again.
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