jimbo Posted November 7, 2009 Posted November 7, 2009 (edited) Looking over my past dates, especially the ones which had more than three dates, at the end when you drop her off at her home; is she waiting for you go ask if you can come up or, if she's interested, will she ask you if you want to come up? Never asked, as I always thought it would give a bad impression, then again, was never asked if I wanted to either. More specifically, I went out with this girl for like 7 dates, one time, like date 3 or 4, she was telling me how one guy after the first date asked if he could come up. She said no. Now, this was our third or fourth date, was that a clue to me to ask or not to ask? Up to then, we just kissed. A few dates later, she broke it off saying she was not feeling it anymore. This was like a year ago, and have not felt the same way about a girl since then. In addition, she was the only girl that I felt zero pressure in kissing. Probably, cause we first kissed after the first meet. Ever since I lost her, my confidence, as you can imagine, is shot. She, on the other hand, is dating guys (and going through them) like they were water. Ever feel like you are in high school again, only fifteen years later? Edited November 7, 2009 by jimbo
carhill Posted November 7, 2009 Posted November 7, 2009 At your age, after three or four dates, if she's feeling it, she'll invite you over for dinner, presuming you've given the impression that you're a gentleman and don't assume 'dinner' at her home means sex. The lady you dated has proved her mettle through her subsequent behaviors. Be thankful she got off your path as quickly as she did.
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