shells Posted November 7, 2009 Posted November 7, 2009 Okay where should i start this? so i used to hang out with this girl and hwe boyfriend and we were like bff. They were the mutual friends of me and my boyfriend BUT you no things happen people change, me and this girl just dun talk to each other anymore let alone hanging out and i no she talked **** behind my back but like its whatever now.( it was a big misunderstanding actually) so my boyfriend only hung out me back then for a whole semester but everything was sweet and nice. This semester is a total disaster!!! me and my boyfriend fight every single week about the same thing - he is out every weekend with his friends ( the girl and her boyfriends and some other friends) like 3 days in a row. I asked him why hes spending so much time with them and he is like " oh i dun think im close with them enough", " you can go hang out with your friends and do your own stuff" yada yada yada.. i do hang out with my friends but i manage to spare some time to actually be with him but hes soooooo obsessed with his friends to the point that he would leave me waiting for him from 8pm to 8am... I dun think hes cheating but I dun get why hes sooo like .. not there for me.... i mean i no i cant compare this to the honeymoon stage back then but then im asking for some decent time together instead of crying myself to sleep everynight. It hurts me so much when he left me aline just to be with his friend knowing that i cant hang out with them cuz that girl hates me or something....and recently hes plesging for this frat and things are just getting worse!!! its just out of control i cannot help cryinggg and i really need help!!
Ariadne Posted November 7, 2009 Posted November 7, 2009 Is there any way that he can take you along? Maybe you can be friends with this girl again if you start hanging out. It seems your bf just wants to party a bit and those are the friends.
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