EricaH329 Posted November 9, 2009 Posted November 9, 2009 trueblue72ny- Have you ever ignored her? Or have you always given in? I can't tell you the sense of empowerment you will recieve once you begin ignoring her. It hurts at first, and you wonder whether or not it was the right thing to do, but once it sets in, you'll feel great! Them contacting you is out of pure selfishness. If you do not feed into their selfishness, it's almost as if you are putting them in their place. As if to say "Hey, you aren't worth my time, just as I wasn't (and still aren't) worth yours. Beat it!" It's a great feeling!
GrayClouds Posted November 9, 2009 Posted November 9, 2009 That should read: Don't romanticizes it that much. If I had to pick between being with someone I loved and a buying a house, I would live in a tent (unless it was a really really big house but if I could afford that the issue of dept is mute). And the kids part, if he gets married to someone else and then finds out she can't have kids is he going to move on? BS! You know him better then me but he seems like a bit of a twerp. I do know you can do better.
Author rickigal Posted November 9, 2009 Author Posted November 9, 2009 GrayClouds, I understood. His ex-wife couldn't have children. He wasn't about to leave her over it. She left him. He is a twerp you are right. If I loved someone, nothing would get in the way. Now he is checking me out online. Looks like the power has shifted since he can't get the validation from me. Now he is wondering about me. Well good, I hope he hurts as much as I do and regrets his decision. And I am fantasizing about him asking me back and me turning him down. Like that will ever happen lol.
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