Mr. Simple Posted November 6, 2009 Posted November 6, 2009 Hi, If someone can help out it will be great. I was divorced and after 5 years of it, and raising 2 kids 1/2 the time I got into a realtion ship. first 4 months were great, then the pressure of marriage, I did not hesitate but asked to wait so kids can get friendly so it wont be an issue. Now I like her AND AM READY FOR MARRIAGE , Kids are found of her but she wants to go clubing, and is finding all the faults in everything, though I have treated her nicely, from dinners to trips , gifts to teh point of dog sitting. Now I feel Dumb!!!! &!!!!!!
Island Girl Posted November 7, 2009 Posted November 7, 2009 Now I like her AND AM READY FOR MARRIAGE , Kids are found of her but she wants to go clubing, and is finding all the faults in everything, though I have treated her nicely, from dinners to trips , gifts to teh point of dog sitting. When you say you treated her nicely it sounds like you became a doormat in the process. There is nice and then there is bending over backwards to kiss her you know what and let her trample you in the process. She should respect you and it appears she doesn't. She also is caught up in something. It could be immaturity, chasing the ego boost, flight from your relationship, etc. but she is definitely on the outs with it all. Women pick you apart when they are not happy and have no respect for you. If you allow her to do it - it gets worse. It sounds like she has been doing it a while and it is baaaaaad now.
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