cutieh Posted November 6, 2009 Posted November 6, 2009 This guy that was using me for booty calls, car rides, my phone to call other women he called me and I said to him that we can't talk anymore, because I want more. He said you can't rush things. He said so we can't talk. So you don't want to talk to me anymore. I said no and hung up the phone. The next day which is today I feel real sad about doing that. But I also feel mad. Can anybody help me with why I'm feeling this way. thanks
xpaperxcutx Posted November 6, 2009 Posted November 6, 2009 You feel like this because you were used by him. He reaped his benefits while you got nothing in return except words like " you can't rush things". You should be glad you broke things off with him.
Drrelationship Posted November 6, 2009 Posted November 6, 2009 Hi Cutieh, If you think about it, you should feel sad AND mad. Its definitely a confusing emotion, but I can help break it down. Your SAD because you gave this guy a chance and now things are over. You put your heart out there and he used it. When people go on dates or start relationships that end badly they become sad because they also have generated some hopes and expectations that the relationship will work out. So your sad it didn't, and your sad that you'll have to go back and try your luck again, it's natural Your MAD because this guy just decided to treat you like garbage, when you were giving him a chance. Its like playing a game with someone and then finding out their cheating. It sucks, it hurts, and you wanna get them back. Its unfair and he shouldn't have done that. I've had women do that to me before, its painful. But I never let it happen again, and maybe that should be your motivation too. Good Luck Drrelationship
single ape Posted November 6, 2009 Posted November 6, 2009 you're mad because you assumed what you want is what he also was going to want. You only got used if it kept going. It sounds like he just wanted to hang out, you wanted a serious boyfriend. He wasn't into that. And now it's over. No reason to get mad about it, sometimes things don't line up.
DanielMadr Posted November 6, 2009 Posted November 6, 2009 This guy that was using me for booty calls, car rides, my phone to call other women he called me and I said to him that we can't talk anymore, because I want more. He said you can't rush things. He said so we can't talk. So you don't want to talk to me anymore. I said no and hung up the phone. The next day which is today I feel real sad about doing that. But I also feel mad. Can anybody help me with why I'm feeling this way. thanks You are feeling sad, because you will be cruising in your car alone now with no prospect of menage a trois which he could so swiftly set up with a simple call from your phone. Am I right?
SincereOnlineGuy Posted November 7, 2009 Posted November 7, 2009 I said... that we can't talk anymore, He said you can't rush things. You mean you can hurry love? ... and you don't have to wait???
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