bbasher75 Posted November 6, 2009 Posted November 6, 2009 There is this so called "lesbian" couple I see everyday. The 1 girl you can tell is the "man" in the relationship but she is very attractive, don't get me wrong. The other girl...you'd never guess she was a lesbian if you met her. Anyway they both are always very friendly to me but lately the one girl (girl 2) has been talking to me a lot more lately and giving me a "different" kind of stare if you cath my drift. I don't know how to describe it but there seems to be a more sexual tone to the conversations lately just based on vocals and body language from her. And the other day her girlfriend (girl 1) wlaks with her and says "she flirts with you too much, doesnt she" and they both smile at me seductively and keep walking. I just don't get the feeling they are 100% lesbian and may be bi-sexual or bi-curious. How do I find out if possibly they may be interested in a threesome without being so blunt or direct? Any way I can imply I'm up for it, or find out if they are up for it? Should I ask them to get a drink with me one night? If I ask them straight out "are you bi-sexual" would that be offensive to them?
DustySaltus Posted November 6, 2009 Posted November 6, 2009 Ok, I actually pulled this off as a "five year anniversary present" with an old EX that I had. They didn't know each other AT ALL so it was a lot more legwork, getting them both comfortable individually with the idea and then putting them in a comfortable situation together. You're in a much better situation because you already have two girls that are obviously into each other. What I would suggest is taking them both out to dinner and get the wine flowing early. Take them to a lounge afterwards, keep the drinks flowing and let nature take its course. The hardest part is getting them to both go to dinner with you. Just be nice about it and seem harmless. Then you are well on your way to becoming their pet project. Just be careful, love triangles get dangerous.
Author bbasher75 Posted November 6, 2009 Author Posted November 6, 2009 (edited) Ok, I actually pulled this off as a "five year anniversary present" with an old EX that I had. They didn't know each other AT ALL so it was a lot more legwork, getting them both comfortable individually with the idea and then putting them in a comfortable situation together. You're in a much better situation because you already have two girls that are obviously into each other. What I would suggest is taking them both out to dinner and get the wine flowing early. Take them to a lounge afterwards, keep the drinks flowing and let nature take its course. The hardest part is getting them to both go to dinner with you. Just be nice about it and seem harmless. Then you are well on your way to becoming their pet project. Just be careful, love triangles get dangerous. Stupid question, but what was the experience like for you? Did your ex and the other girl kiss each other etc. or was it more them taking turns with you one at a time while the other one watched? Also they are both actually very nice people, so I don't want to offend them in any way. How can I suggest setting up a dinner date or going out for drinks? Just ask if they'd like to get a drink one night? Also how can I tell if they're really bi-curious? Is there any way to mabye find out before asking them out? Edited November 6, 2009 by bbasher75
DustySaltus Posted November 6, 2009 Posted November 6, 2009 Let's put it this way....they know you'll be ready when called upon lol. The way it happen with me is that they started hooking up and I just kind of let things happen naturally...hot tubs are always nice You said that one may have liked you more than the other. I would hook up with the one who liked you "less" first to make her feel part of the team. There's no right or wrong way to do this. It just happens. Ask them if you can take them for an "evening out" (NOT just dinner) and see what they say. They are probably thinking about it already. Have a bottle of wine or two, get a vibe for how things are going and if things look promising take them to a nice little intimate lounge and then make your move. I've always learned that the simplest way to start a conversation with someone is to say "hi". That's it, keep it simple because this has the potential to get a lot more complicated...... I WANT UPDATES!! Lol
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