TaleSpin Posted November 6, 2009 Posted November 6, 2009 So, I'm seeing a new guy. I like him. More than the guy I was seeing immediately before (that I mentioned in my last post) and my ex. He's pretty amazing. He's smart, talented, funny, attractive... perfect, maybe? There are some things I don't know what to do about though, things I think may end up being deal-breakers. I just don't know. 1. The guy I was seeing and sleeping with recently (the last time we hung out was a week ago) is a friend of the guy I'm seeing now. They're not best buddies or anything, but they used to be roommates and they enjoy each others company from time to time. The guy I'm seeing now has no idea that I was seeing his friend, and I'm not exactly sure how or when to bring this up. Or should I? 2. We haven't slept together yet, and I don't really want to considering the above. I'm really hesitant about sleeping with him in general because I like him a lot and I get the impression that he's really careful about the people he chooses to date and sleep with. We've messed around a little, and he told me we should take things slower, which I really liked. It's just that I'm generally a little quicker getting to the sex part and, even though I don't mind waiting with him, I wonder if it will be an issue. I feel like his head would explode if he knew I slept with his friend the first night I met him. I don't want him to regret me later on because he finds out I'm sluttier than what he's comfortable with. 3. I just got out of a 3 year long relationship about 5 weeks ago. I'm a little nervous about starting something with someone I like this much. Is 5 weeks really enough time to be jumping into something like this? I'm not sure it is, but... I don't want to pass this up for that reason. I honestly wouldn't have ever slept with his friend if I knew he was interested. I've known him longer, and we have so much in common. I just really did not get the impression he was interested in me. We were even hanging out together since I moved back into town (5 weeks ago), and he didn't come on to me or make any sort of move. It just kind of sparked when we were at a party and, being the touchy-feely drunk person that I am, I put my arm around him. Where should I go from here?
xpaperxcutx Posted November 6, 2009 Posted November 6, 2009 Figure out if you're on the rebound, or whether you are truly interested in guy 1 or 2. It seems like you're looking to fool around more than you're ready to jump into a new relationship.
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