Tiz Posted November 6, 2009 Posted November 6, 2009 Either you just backhanded complimented me or this joke just flew over my head. Then again the internet always makes something simple that someone says come off the complete opposite because it's not a face-to-face chat... so I'm sorry if I've misinterpreted what you were originally saying... No, I'm being completely serious. I think it's great you understand this.
BG1985 Posted November 6, 2009 Posted November 6, 2009 Yeah, Vanilla 87, other girls are on here bashing guys who are trying to help other guys. These certain girls would accuse you of teaching guys how to play games and manipulate girls. These certain girls also tell us that the advice we give will only get you dates with emotionally-damaged girls and that we know absolutely nothing and attract the bottom of the barrel.
vanilla87 Posted November 7, 2009 Posted November 7, 2009 No, I'm being completely serious. I think it's great you understand this. haha thanks! I tend to get chewed out around this site for being honest and straight forward not just by women, but more so the guys. Truth hurts, it can be ugly, but it's better to hear it now then months down the road. I think the other problem is a lot of women that have been truly rejected one too many times or have HIGH expectations for relationships, jump the guy and start to think about the FUTURE and I'm not taking 2 weeks ahead, I'm talking like months of even years. Those are the ones that don't understand and read between the lines and look for "clues" or "signs". I can say that it was a movie that a lot of women wouldn't understand, but if they go and actually see "He Is Just Not That Into You..." I kid you not, a few of my friends actually became aware of the difference between a line and a real meaningful response. That sounds silly that I suggested that, but to be honest it was a romcom, and most women only response to movies that have a romantic ending...trust me, have of my female friends enjoy those movies more then anything I'll take a movie filled with either zombies, fast cars, or something hilarious anyday, like "zack and miri make a porno", haha or "step-brothers"...
vanilla87 Posted November 7, 2009 Posted November 7, 2009 Yeah, Vanilla 87, other girls are on here bashing guys who are trying to help other guys. These certain girls would accuse you of teaching guys how to play games and manipulate girls. These certain girls also tell us that the advice we give will only get you dates with emotionally-damaged girls and that we know absolutely nothing and attract the bottom of the barrel. sorry just that those girls are insecure about themselves. A real women knows the rules, guidelines, and realizes that guys can keep their emotions separate from their sexual desires. I've always felt like the only girl from my friends, who can not only go into something sexual with a guy and not expect anything out of it. I've actually been through a crap load of stuff, so I'm extremely grounded, which my be the reason why I really know not to be stupid about that stuff that most women are to begin with really. So call me "emotionally damaged" for all I care, atleast I know that at the end of the day I can walk away and say that my heart won't be sitting on the floor cause I thought the guy was going to call me when he actually said "I'll call you...", trust me 9 times out of 10 I know if a guy will call me, by actually making the phone ring and not waiting for it it's called having a life, thank you very much!!!
stepka Posted November 7, 2009 Posted November 7, 2009 These are things that we all know in our rational minds, but when we really like someone we get stupid. I'm in the school that believes it is a bad idea to call someone out on this (I've learned the hard way), because you can't badger someone into liking or loving you--if they aren't into you, it doesn't make them a bad person, just a bad fit. It's true that there are a lot of gameplayers out there, but be glad that they leave easy to read signs, if only we'd just get rational enough to read them.
dreamergrl Posted November 7, 2009 Posted November 7, 2009 If you are overly texting someone, then you say to them "Am I bugging you?" You most likely are. Especially if they aren't responding. And if they aren't responding that doesn't mean go and message them via facebook or myspace either. Leave them the hell alone!!
DanielMadr Posted November 7, 2009 Posted November 7, 2009 I agree. Great post. It is common sense knowledge as AlphaMale stated but it is fine to see it written and clearly not everyone does know it or believe it to be true as you can see in other threads. I however dont entirely agree with 5. He/she frequently takes several hours to respond to me, or does not respond sometimes at all I'm a firm believer that the manner in which someon responds to you is directly linked to their interest. The higher the interest, the quicker and more informative their response. If youre waiting 4 hours to get 'hi' back, they arent all that interested. If someone completely ignores a message you can safely assume they saw, they are absolutely NOT interested (even if they respond later to other messages) Sometimes Im really busy and cant be messaging back. And sometimes I just wait for torturing reasons - they are much more happy then when they finally receive the mesaage or whatever.
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