rp123 Posted November 5, 2009 Posted November 5, 2009 I woke today thinking. Why am I allowing my happiness to be dependent on the actions of my ex. Of course I am doing NC to help myself, but any hurt dumpee really secretly hopes that NC will bring their ex back. Why did I allow myself to be humiliated and lose my own respect. Why did I permit it. True that my ex treated me in a disrespectful and cruel way during the last days of our relationship. She drew out my pain, and sent me mixed messages (i.e. Sleeping with me..!) SHe gave me the platitudes: " I need space", "maybe in the future", "I do love you, but can't see a future for us" She acted awfully, there is no excuse for her, but equally, I allowed her to behave like. I permitted her to act in this way. The responsibility is in part mine. I'm beginning to think I reclaim my happiness for myself, and not allow to be dependent on the the actions of others... I hope this is progress, but who knows....
TaraMaiden Posted November 5, 2009 Posted November 5, 2009 Ladies and gentlemen, welcome to another 'Official LoveShack Lightbulb' moment - !! The "ahaaah!" has landed......!!
Odyssey Posted November 5, 2009 Posted November 5, 2009 lol. It means you're not longer floating on Lala land fixated on your ex. You've realised she isn't worth it. You've finally let go. Moving on get real easy from here on...(it's a good feeling).
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