honeypear Posted November 5, 2009 Posted November 5, 2009 So my ex broke off our engagement and dumped me for my mistake. However, what insane reason I did not go NC. Because it was a LDR we used to talk up to 10-12 hours a day through various means. He said we would only talk every now and then maybe once every couple of weeks. Well here we are a month later and we talk about 4-8 hours a day except for the odd day where I am so confused I don't talk to him. When we do talk there are awkard moments and we may not say anything for about 20-30 mins. Fast forward to today. My brother is sending him something in England. I sent my brother an email asking if it had been done a few days ago it was after an awkard conversation. I implied that once the pkg was sent I may be able to move on. Well my brother not that great with email sent my ex an quick note saying it was on its way. My ex read my comments and flipped. He sent a message what was going on and that if I didnt want to talk to him, then don't talk to him...(I left out the expletives from tht msg) About an hour later he apologized saying he got pissed at the idea that I didnt want to talk to him ever again. Ok does anybody know guy speak. What is going through his head here? Any clues????
GrayClouds Posted November 5, 2009 Posted November 5, 2009 As the saying goes he wants his cake and eat it too. Yes he does not want to be in a relationship with you any more but he does not want for you to move on. That would hurt his ego. Go no contact to help YOU heal.
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