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HBJen

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Hey All,

 

I have posted several times in the past about my heartbreak, received great advice, negative advice, and overall - got a lot out of the conversations I had with people in this forum. I didnt agree with the advice I received a lot of the times (I wasnt a big fan of NC, or the whole playing hard to get idea) - but the information I received here really helped me to make the best decisions for me.

 

On that note, I am happy to say that I have officially reconciled with the love of my life. When I thought it was a lost cause, but held on to the hope I had and the belief that my connection with him was stronger than this rollercoaster we were going on - and everything is better than ever.

 

I think the best advice I could ever give is - take the time to make the best decision for you - take in advice, and play the devils advocate. Trust your instincts and if you believe in something, then do what it takes to make things right.

 

Love is a unique thing - and I am extremely greatful for the love I get to share again - and I hope you all find the love that you need/long for.

 

xo

Jennie

squeaky Established Member

squeaky

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Aw, yay! I love hearing stuff like this :)

Sunshine30 New Member

Sunshine30

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I am truly happy for you. I am curious about your stor. How long were you apart before reconciling? Any additional helpful advice for those who still are hoping that can work things out with there ex.

name witheld Established Member

name witheld

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yeah well done!

 

I'd also like to hear your story, especially as it seems to be a non-NC success.

 

Although I'm curious if there is perhaps different rules for guys/girls?

eg due to different laws of attraction?

name witheld Established Member

name witheld

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actually, i just browsed some of your posts.

 

looks like there was strong signals that it would work out and you had a gradual progression back together.

 

Though there is nothing to say it would have been any different in NC!!

I dunno, maybe if it hadn't worked out so well you would have tried NC?

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