kassandra Posted December 8, 2003 Posted December 8, 2003 I've been with my bf for 5 years now. It hasnt been all that easy, but this year it was hell and I made the wrong decision i think. Early this year my bf confronted me, saying that he wasnt happy in our relationship any more, he wanted to be free. I didnt see it coming and i was schocked. We talked and argued about it for a month resulting in my bf staying with me. He said he was wrong and wanted to stay with me and he seemed/ still seems happy with that decision. My problem is that i regret asking him to stay when he wanted to break up. My problem is that we havent been sleeping with each other for a few months at a time, and this makes me really insecure and not wanted, and he thinks its not that important. Well, it is for me, I want a relationship with someone who cares about me physically too. Although we live together, there's a huge distance between us. I'm not even sure i love him any more... Am i being silly? We connect very well otherwise, it's easy to live with him. Should i break up? Everyday i'm more convinced i should... I'm also worried why we dont connect physically any more, it is really emotionally tiring!! Anyone some good advice?? Love, Kass
DonTomaso Posted December 9, 2003 Posted December 9, 2003 Before you break up with him, you should talk to him about how you are feeling. it's possible that he feels insecure about the whole thing too. Maybe if you put some more energy into your sex life it will repair matters. Just a thought.
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