whattodoooo Posted November 3, 2009 Posted November 3, 2009 (edited) i know its sort of long but please help me out, i need some help. ok so for those of you that didnt read my other "new thread" i will make the background story short.. my boyfriend and i have been together for 10 months and he is controlling, overly jealous, insecure, and he talks down to me. everyone ive talked to told me i should break up with him BUT heres my problem, i dont want to be depressed and miss him please people tell me how to get over an ex. hes been irritating me so badly ! just yesterday i went to church with him like usual but this time i invited my younger sis to come and he said that was fine so my mom dropped me and my sis off at his job and we waited for him to get off work. he did not seem happy to see me at all he didnt hug me he didnt kiss me and i understand he shouldnt do that while working but even after he got off he didnt. and then i told him that me and my sister were hungry and we wanted to go to in-in-out and get something before church and he said okayy and i asked him if he wanted anything and he said no so then we got there and he stood outside and i was like are you gonna come inside he said "no im not getting anything" i was like okayy and then when me and my sis came out he was sitting in the car. he told me that he didnt feel appreciated because i didnt bring him a drink while he was working and i wasnt thinking about him. so our night went badly and my sister saw all of it and she told me he was acting weird(not infront of him) and he hardly talked so i asked him whats wrong and he said hes just tired from work. i understand that he could be tired but that doesnt give him the right to act rude to me and my sis. i didnt even feel like i was his girlfriend yesterday, i felt like it was a first date with a guy i just met and it sucked and i was happy to get home. i just have realized from my sis being around with me and my boyfriend that he seems soooo not social and he hardly ever laughs ! my sister and i were laughing and in a good mood and we tried to goof around with him but he was just like an emotionless statue. i am a social person, i love having fun and laughing and going out, and with my sis there it made me realize how opposite he is of me. my sister and i are very close we are four years apart but very close and shes going to be in my life no matter what and i want my boyfriend to talk to her and get to know her and have a friendship but my boyfriend doesnt even try to socialize with her and that to me is not cool at all. as bad as it sounds i know that me and my boyfriend dont seem like we have a future together because we are too opposite and i feel that i will have no fun staying with him because he always wants it to be just me and him and that gets boring because i feel im missing out on fun parties and being with my friends. everyone tells me to break up with him and i know thats probably the best thing to do but how do i get over him ? thank you for reading this please please help me out i will greatly apprecite it Edited November 3, 2009 by whattodoooo added in a sentence
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