So how gone is it?

[groedy]

Thanks in advance for replies.

 

I have posted before, but am giving update and interested in feedback. Short version up till now, short relationship of 2.5 months, progressed very quickly. LDR and before break up, was getting feeling she was less interested. She finds dating profiles of mine that I am not using, which I told her and then breaks up siting trouble with school and overall stress of relationship, family, work and school.

 

During breakup, which took a week for her to decide, sent 2 emails telling her where I stood and that I agreed we should cool off so she could focus on school. She responds in facebook saying now was not the right time for us. I did respond with that I thought we should talk on the phone at least and modify our schedules before giving up. Next day, I sent text instead and said I was good with the decision and look me up when things change.

 

No contact for 2 weeks. I then sent her a joke we used to have in email, she responded within minutes. NC for another 2 weeks. I then wished her a happy birthday and told her I found stuff I needed to mail back. I included a note. Again reiterated that I respected her decision, was insulted she wouldn't believe that I wasn't 100% committed, and that if she ever thought differently and if I wasn't with someone else, let me know. I also shared with her my thoughts of the good times we had. That was 2 weeks ago.

 

Since then, NC for just over 2 weeks. She just deleted her facebook account completely. I don't believe it had anything to do with me. All of her friends and family are still my facebook friends.

 

Any chance of reconciling? I have apologized for having the accounts, but made it clear not apologizing for moral wrong doing because I wasn't talking to anybody and never would.

 

Side question as well, her sister (who has 2 kids, 2 different fathers, is living at home and has an income of unemployment and child support) has begun posting pictures of her and her sister in bars arm in arm with random guys, this was while we were dating (conveniently not posted till afterward). I don't believe she did anything with any of them, but what is worse, looking at profiles online or mingling with people at the bar?

 

I know, I know, it sounds like we both had reservations about the relationship, but I really do think we go well together and the only real issue was communication. I look forward to your thoughts.

[Lamak]

You're not really NC if you're Facebook lurking. Just let the relationship go, because a.) it was only 2.5 months and b.) it's a LDR. If she comes back, she comes back. Continue NC.