electricvanilla Posted November 2, 2009 Posted November 2, 2009 There is this guy I have been dating for quite some time now. The day before Halloween...since we were both going to the same venue...but with our own friends, he made it clear he wanted to meet up with me during the night to see me as well as the costume he helped choose. On Halloween night it was getting close to midnight and I didn't hear from him, so I texted him "are you here" & he said "yeah...wuts up?" I got peeved so I didn't respond. Then later he asks me where I am...I told him...then never heard back. So whatever, the night goes on and as I am leaving we happen to bump into each other walking through a crowd. He said hi, kisses me on the cheek & KEEPS WALKING. & I was standing there talking to air. Do I have the right to feel weird about this? It made me feel belittled. I mean the least he could've done was look at the costume...but not even that. I was all excited to bump into him but after that incident, I really wish I didn't. He texted me 3 hrs later asking if I was still around. & yeah...maybe I overreacted with the whole text situation...because people forget things. Even so, the bump in situation I find odd. I feel like I should stop talking to him? Why would he just walk away? Any input would be greatly appreciated:bunny:
New Again Posted November 2, 2009 Posted November 2, 2009 On Halloween night it was getting close to midnight and I didn't hear from him, so I texted him "are you here" & he said "yeah...wuts up?" I got peeved so I didn't respond. Then later he asks me where I am...I told him...then never heard back. I imagine if this guy was posting here his thread would say something like "There's this girl who I've been dating for awhile. We were going to the same party on Halloween, so I let her know that I wanted to meet up there. But she didn't get ahold of me until almost midnight!! Then, when I texted her back asking her what she was up to, she ignored me!! I totally felt like she didn't want to see me, so when I awkwardly ran into her later in the night I just said hello, gave her a kiss, and went on my way." Sounds to me like you both behaved badly and you both need to stop playing games.
carhill Posted November 2, 2009 Posted November 2, 2009 He was an ass but you'll stay with him. They always do Also, he has a history of similar behavior, yes?
Author electricvanilla Posted November 3, 2009 Author Posted November 3, 2009 Well, he said he would contact me because he was going to arrive a few hrs after me...which is why I waited. & no, he hasn't acted like this before. && I don't think I would run back to him, lol. I imagine if this guy was posting here his thread would say something like "There's this girl who I've been dating for awhile. We were going to the same party on Halloween, so I let her know that I wanted to meet up there. But she didn't get ahold of me until almost midnight!! Then, when I texted her back asking her what she was up to, she ignored me!! I totally felt like she didn't want to see me, so when I awkwardly ran into her later in the night I just said hello, gave her a kiss, and went on my way." Sounds to me like you both behaved badly and you both need to stop playing games.
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