drivesmecrazy3 Posted November 2, 2009 Posted November 2, 2009 Theres a girl that i've always been craazy about for some reason. We used to always hangout, but not really anymore. Everytime I used to ask her to hangout, she would either say maybe, i'll see, or yes and then cancel last minute. This ALWAYS happened, there was not one time that she ever followed through on me making plans. The only time I ever saw her was when SHE made plans, and even then sometimes she cancelled. A few times she cancelled plans with me and didnt even do anything, just stayed home. Once she even cancelled on me last minute and ended up going with her friend to hangout with other guys! and hooked up with one! We havent seen each other in months, and she knew I was going to be in the neighborhood, so she hit me up and asked if I wanted to meet her at a mall she was at. She had been telling me for awhile that would buy me a hat that i've been wanting. So I asked her if she was going to buy me the hat that she promised. She agreed and said yes, so i drove there to meet her. We met up, talked a little, walked around, and then came to a store where they had my hat. After trying it on and everything I walk over to her and shes like "im not buying that for you" and i was like wtf? and she really didnt. Then we walk around for 10 more minutes, while shes looking at jackets that she liked which were over 150 dollars, and then she says shes going to drive home and leaves. Do you think this was messed up?
amirpc Posted November 2, 2009 Posted November 2, 2009 Theres a girl that i've always been craazy about for some reason. We used to always hangout, but not really anymore. Everytime I used to ask her to hangout, she would either say maybe, i'll see, or yes and then cancel last minute. This ALWAYS happened, there was not one time that she ever followed through on me making plans. The only time I ever saw her was when SHE made plans, and even then sometimes she cancelled. A few times she cancelled plans with me and didnt even do anything, just stayed home. Once she even cancelled on me last minute and ended up going with her friend to hangout with other guys! and hooked up with one! We havent seen each other in months, and she knew I was going to be in the neighborhood, so she hit me up and asked if I wanted to meet her at a mall she was at. She had been telling me for awhile that would buy me a hat that i've been wanting. So I asked her if she was going to buy me the hat that she promised. She agreed and said yes, so i drove there to meet her. We met up, talked a little, walked around, and then came to a store where they had my hat. After trying it on and everything I walk over to her and shes like "im not buying that for you" and i was like wtf? and she really didnt. Then we walk around for 10 more minutes, while shes looking at jackets that she liked which were over 150 dollars, and then she says shes going to drive home and leaves. Do you think this was messed up? Dude, how old are you?
BCCA Posted November 2, 2009 Posted November 2, 2009 Do not waste another moment with this woman. She doesnt care about you at all, she just likes the attention she gets from you. I have no doubt that she would ditch you in an instant to do just about anything, so why waste your life on that? To answer your question, yes, she has been a total bitch to you, but you are at least 50% at fault for even putting up with it. Shes just toying with you, and is not interested, its plain to see.
amirpc Posted November 2, 2009 Posted November 2, 2009 Yeah BCCA is right. I think it is strange to meet a girl at the mall where she has promised to buy you a hat. She is definitely wasting your time.
JJ1983 Posted November 3, 2009 Posted November 3, 2009 Hey buddy, Im afraid to say that this girl is not worth your time at all. Shes obviously playing games with you. It sucks, I know, I've been there myself. Im going through something now with a girl I care deeply about. Its a different situation then yours, but I can totally relate. Just by your email, you sound really young. As hard as it is, dont let her get to you. She obviously young and very immature. Keep your head up
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