stoneymirror Posted November 2, 2009 Posted November 2, 2009 Well I've been with my GF now for almost a year. We fight almost every time we hang out together. And it's gotten so bad that we only see each other a day or two a week. Yet we both continue to choose to be in this relationship, I need the strength to walk away from her for good. One minute she's the sweetest person, then the next she turns into the biggest jerk in the world. I feel like I can't get what I need out of her emotionally and I feel like she just has way too much pride and anger that she'll ever be willing to change her ways. She blows up on me, then turns it around and makes it my fault. I give and yet I never feel it's enough. If I don't drop everything when she wants to do something it becomes a huge issue about me be selfish. She's verbally abusive and says so many things that are so hurtful and she never really apologizes for it. On top of that she gives me this attitude like if I'm gonna be this way then she has no reason to try. Even when I don't do certain things she always makes me out to be this awful person who had these bad/selfish intentions. When we argue she acts like a 5 yr old and swears and blows up, and she always makes the arguments worse with her comments and her thick head. I really want to get out of this relationship. Everytime I'm ready to pull out, she comes around and tries to be this sweet person. And I'm a sucker, I always fall for it. I've deleted her from my phone book, but I know she's just gonna end up calling or txting me. Why do I put myself through this time and time again, it's breaking me down as a person.
lilbelle Posted November 2, 2009 Posted November 2, 2009 Hey Stoney You deserve better and she deserves better. If you can't give her what she needs than let her go to find someone that can. Do yourself and her a favor by giving her complete closure. Let her know you both deserve to be happy and that your time with her is up. Wish her luck and initiate nc.
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