2.50 a gallon Posted November 4, 2009 Posted November 4, 2009 They're 5 year anniversary. At last minute he chose to go with his buddy to Vegas to watch a Poker tournament. I found out the next morning that she was married.
Bobby2010 Posted November 4, 2009 Posted November 4, 2009 Smoking. Calling (No answer). Looking at the clock. Wondering. Calling (No answer). Pacing. Smoking. Being cranky at friends. Not being able to focus on work. Drinking. Calling ("Oh I missed the last bus, see you tomorrow, love you") Repeat cycle.
sumdude Posted November 6, 2009 Posted November 6, 2009 Not sure how far back or how many times anymore. But.. I was away on business in Korea for 2 weeks when I'm sure something happened. I came back and she tried to accuse me of cheating.
RedDevil66 Posted November 6, 2009 Posted November 6, 2009 My weekly AA meeting....basically the only time we were apart. For that 1.5 hours I was gone, she went to have sex in the public park .... every week for 3 months. I would get home before her and do the dishes as she walked in every week. Needless to say, I can't go to my meetings anymore...the triggers are awful. WOW! Is she also an addict?
Spoiled Posted November 6, 2009 Posted November 6, 2009 May I add? While I was cheating, I was also cooking, cleaning, washing clothes, caring for two small children, working, exercising, running all errands(grocery, md appts), changing light bulbs, taking out the trash, getting oil changes, and more. While I was cheating, my H was laying on the couch, watching t.v., **traveling for work**, ignoring me and our children, helping and running errands for his immediate family, making our weekends miserable with his grumpy and sour moods, and showing affection only when he wanted sex.
tami-chan Posted November 6, 2009 Posted November 6, 2009 Taking care of my baby girl....learning to work the washer/dryer, the dishwasher, iron sheets without burning my forearm, trying very hard not to break the egg yolk for his sunny-side up egg in the morning, wondering how I can protect myself from the oil splatter when I tried to fry chicken....wondering, wondering...how did those other wives do it??????????
bentnotbroken Posted November 6, 2009 Posted November 6, 2009 May I add? While I was cheating, I was also cooking, cleaning, washing clothes, caring for two small children, working, exercising, running all errands(grocery, md appts), changing light bulbs, taking out the trash, getting oil changes, and more. While I was cheating, my H was laying on the couch, watching t.v., **traveling for work**, ignoring me and our children, helping and running errands for his immediate family, making our weekends miserable with his grumpy and sour moods, and showing affection only when he wanted sex. Did I read the OP question wrong?
Spoiled Posted November 6, 2009 Posted November 6, 2009 Did I read the OP question wrong? Nope, but not all BS are at home doing everything while the WS is cheating!!
bentnotbroken Posted November 6, 2009 Posted November 6, 2009 Nope, but not all BS are at home doing everything while the WS is cheating!! That wasn't the question. And it was addressed to the BS who were. Apparently being at home has nothing to do with cheating, as evidenced by your case. That is purely a question of ethics, morals and standards. It was a curiosity question to BS about what THEY were doing. Now if you BS had been on here and said they were laying on the couch while you were doing the freak with someone else, there answer (if true surely deserves to be cheated on:rolleyes:) would be a direct answer to the direct the proposed question.
bentnotbroken Posted November 6, 2009 Posted November 6, 2009 That wasn't the question. And it was addressed to the BS who were doing what they were supposed to be doing. Apparently being at home has nothing to do with cheating, as evidenced by your case. That is purely a question of ethics, morals and standards. It was a curiosity question to BS about what THEY were doing. Now if you BS had been on here and said they were laying on the couch while you were doing the freak with someone else, there answer (if true surely deserves to be cheated on:rolleyes:) would be a direct answer to the proposed question. This is how it should have read. Never post when you are too tired to type properly:o
foreal Posted November 6, 2009 Posted November 6, 2009 May I add? While I was cheating, I was also cooking, cleaning, washing clothes, caring for two small children, working, exercising, running all errands(grocery, md appts), changing light bulbs, taking out the trash, getting oil changes, and more. While I was cheating, my H was laying on the couch, watching t.v., **traveling for work**, ignoring me and our children, helping and running errands for his immediate family, making our weekends miserable with his grumpy and sour moods, and showing affection only when he wanted sex. I was doing all of those things above- oh, except the cheating.
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