Lizzie60 Posted November 4, 2009 Posted November 4, 2009 I totally agree.. doesn't matter how anyone puts it.. if the partner is COMPLETELY and TOTALLY satisfied with his/her partners s/he will NOT cheat... simple as that.. When the passion of the 'beginning' is in full swing.. no one looks at other people.. they only have eyes and hands for each other... Then.. what happens? Routine sets in.. passion disappears... then BAM!!!
RedDevil66 Posted November 4, 2009 Posted November 4, 2009 I totally agree.. doesn't matter how anyone puts it.. if the partner is COMPLETELY and TOTALLY satisfied with his/her partners s/he will NOT cheat... simple as that.. When the passion of the 'beginning' is in full swing.. no one looks at other people.. they only have eyes and hands for each other... Then.. what happens? Routine sets in.. passion disappears... then BAM!!! This is when the "men" are separated from the "boys' in that, boys will then seek outside satisfaction and the "men" will try to work on their marriage and or leave the marriage. NO relationship is without issues, so everyone should cheat when it gets tough?! Come on!
BG1985 Posted November 4, 2009 Posted November 4, 2009 I am not saying that people should cheat. I'm just giving reasons for WHY they cheat. If a married man is dissatisfied with his marriage due to any multitude of reasons, it makes more sense for him to try to have some sort of affair if he can get away with it, as it is much cheaper than a divorce. I'm not trying to justify peoples' actions. I've never cheated and don't plan on doing so either.
RedDevil66 Posted November 4, 2009 Posted November 4, 2009 I am not saying that people should cheat. I'm just giving reasons for WHY they cheat. If a married man is dissatisfied with his marriage due to any multitude of reasons, it makes more sense for him to try to have some sort of affair if he can get away with it, as it is much cheaper than a divorce. I'm not trying to justify peoples' actions. I've never cheated and don't plan on doing so either. Bottom line is, humans are flawed. There is no justification for MANY things humans do, but basically, we all act out of fear and a need to survive. cheating is wrong, but so is smoking, drinking, lying, stealing, over eating, etc........humans are simply flawed!
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