BlackDahlia_10 Posted November 2, 2009 Posted November 2, 2009 A friend of mine introduced me to this guy that was very interested in me. We started talking and we found out that we had a lot of things in common, so we started dating. I've never had a boyfriend and it was his first time dating a good girl. My friend said he was very happy with me because I was a good girl and I was what he had been looking for his whole life. But then, he started saying that I was too good for him, (apparently he wanted me as a bad girl or something). So, he stop calling me and he blocked me from facebook. What makes me mad is that he could've told me, I would've understand. But he acted as an immature coward.
Brightmoon Posted November 2, 2009 Posted November 2, 2009 Hi BlackDahlia, Firstly I am not sure what all the "good girl" thing is about... But it must be very hurtful for you to have this guy block you and disappear like that. He is a coward. If you are are feeling low over this.. it may not help, but you really are better off without him. He is bad news:mad:. You deserve better. Not knowing exactly what happened, is hurtful, but whatever it is.. they are his issues. All the best with the next guy you date who will hopefully, not be such a jerk.
xpaperxcutx Posted November 2, 2009 Posted November 2, 2009 Sorry to hear that. Don't worry about your first heartbreak, they'll just make you into a stronger person. Just know that, yes, he's a coward, but now you know, you can find someone who will treat you better. Take care.
JL911 Posted November 2, 2009 Posted November 2, 2009 Unless the guy is dead he has no excuse for being a coward. I have stated many times that breaking up, stop talking, ect ect is nothing more than selfishness and immaturity. You are better off in the long run.
Author BlackDahlia_10 Posted November 2, 2009 Author Posted November 2, 2009 Thanks to everyone. Just to clear everything up, when he said I was too good for him and everything, he didnt said it to me. I found out a week after everything happened because of my friend.
aerogurl87 Posted November 2, 2009 Posted November 2, 2009 you women always call it cowardliness. Like you owe anyone in life outside your immediate family an explanation for your actions. To the OP, he told you what the deal was, he wasn't getting what he wanted and moved on. What else do you want? A breakdown of all of your faults that he found in detail so you can feel like complete crap? He did you a favor. Move on to the next guy. I disagree, he's a bonafide coward and his actions prove it. And OP your better off without him, this guy needs drama in his life if he wants a "bad girl" and that's never a good sign. What he did was wrong, but he also did you a favor by breaking up with you because the worst kind of person to date is someone who feeds off and NEEDS drama in their life to feel happy.
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