ssj4trunks09 Posted November 2, 2009 Posted November 2, 2009 Ok, me and my best friend got into a fight. I'm going to say, it was stupid. I KNOW it's stupid. For the past couple of weeks, I've been getting annoyed by him. Mainly because he's not being himself when he's around other people. Let's say we go out for drinks, he'll drink and pretend he's more drunk than he actually is. He fakes it, he doesn't like beer only liquor. Yet, he drinks beer cuz everyone's doing it and he thinks its the kool thing to do. I drink beer, only because I like it, he drinks it cuz everyone else is doing it. That's one example that's been irritating me about him, all that being fake. Another thing, this guy. He has HUGE pride and ego. If you were to look him up those two words in the dictionary you'll see a picture of him right next to them. His way of thinking is, I don't call people unless they call me. I don't text people, unless they text me. I don't add people on FB or myspace, people add me. I don't talk to people unless they talk to me first. He thinks he is ALWAYS right. When he does a mistake, he tries to find anyone to blame HIS mistake on. When people make fun of him he'll try to redirect it toward someone else (for example he does his chest exercises wrong and people make fun of him for it and TRIES to point out that I do it wrong when I actually do it right and he ends up looking stupid). He claims I'm copying his dressing style when it's actually the other way around. When it comes to driving, he ALWAYS wants to drive even if it's a group of 20 people and everyone is going in different cars and he'll go by himself in his car. He'll drive even if no one wants to go with him because he thinks its the "cool" thing to do. He tries to look superior in every aspect like if he's perfect. When he's wrong he gets like a little kid and doesn't talk to anyone and stays quiet, after wards tries to blame someone else for him being wrong. Last week, I decided to do a little experiment. My friend decided to join along as well. We didn't text him or call him the whole weekend, not even to see if he wanted to hang with us. We didn't talk from Thursday till Wednesday, we went to a basketball game on Wednesday that we had planned months before. Yet, I still had to call him to see where we were going to meet up. He didn't even bother contacting us even though it was HIS idea and he had 4 tickets. We still did it for the sake of not letting the tickets go to waste. The night went well, up to the point where we got home. We were hanging around his house and that's when I started talking to him about school and how well I'm doing. He's not doing well, for the past 3 semesters he's dropped every class except 2 and he barely passed those 2 classes with a C. Me being a friend told him to get his **** straight. He took it the wrong way and started talking about how I have to get my **** straight and how it took me a whole year to do that, not true. I've only dropped 2 classes all year and have passed all my classes with an A or B. He began looking at me hard like he wanted to fight me and I told him to change his face and to stop looking at me like that. He got up to me and he looked at me in the eye and I told him again to change the look in his face. He then said "what am I supposed to be doing, looking at the floor? I'm looking at you in the eye". I said "that's fine, but there's a different of looking at me in the eye and looking at me hard in the eye". He didn't change his face and I told him idk who he thinks he is with that mentality that he thinks that ppl should only come to him, and after that's when I told him to fight me to settle any problems with me because obviously talking isn't doing any good. He walked up to me and later pointed to my friend "just remember who wanted to fight" and walked away. Since that day he removed me from myspace and fb. He also removed my friend from myspace and fb when she didn't do anything, she only defended me. He's wrong and he knows it but he took it to another level with his immaturity. On top of that, for weeks now he's been giving me an attitude and yelling at me for no reason. Days before we were talking on the phone to know when to meet up for the gym, I asked him what time and the phone cut so I didn't hear him. I asked him to repeat what he said and he yelled at me the time, that's when I had warned him to calm down with his little attitude with me. That's just one example. Everyone is telling me to call him or text him because although everyone is on my side and he's wrong. He has too much pride and ego that he WON'T call me or anything. But if I do call him, he will keep going with his little habits and will also think "ha he called me" and once again I went to him. Btw other people have argued with him and they also had to go to him to settle it. It's his ego and pride, no matter how wrong he is. He won't do it. He won't change either. People have tried talking to him about his immaturity over the weekend. But he only says "whatever man". Should I contact him and keep up with the bull****? Or should I just wait and by miracle wait for him to come to me? He's not a bad guy, but the things I've mentioned above just get tiring to deal with idk what I should do...
Citizen Erased Posted November 2, 2009 Posted November 2, 2009 Why do you want to still be friends with him?
Author ssj4trunks09 Posted November 2, 2009 Author Posted November 2, 2009 because although he is the way that he is.. he's a pretty cool person when he's himself. He's been there for me in time of need and I've had MANY times of need. I can count on him when it comes to urgent help. People know that we're always chilling together, I'm more of the laid back calm person who tries to settle problems between friends while he's more of the attitude having problems with other people people.. but idk the things I've mentioned above they're just getting to me. Before it wasn't a problem, but now it's just getting annoying..
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