xxDayamGirlxx Posted November 2, 2009 Posted November 2, 2009 hi. i was with my ex for a year when he out of the blue dumped me. no warning at all. he is younger than me and said all this i wanna settle down bull****. whatever i think he was stressed with exams n didnt have time for me. he pretty much said he should be doing more for me n i deserve better etc. he doesnt believe in breaks he said he might be ready in like a year but it wouldnt be fair for me to wait. anyway he contacted me 4 times after since, 2 about my birthday (with xxx's). i was doing NC but a day after his last text i just sent a few texts saying like thnx for the bday msg but u dont have to im fine but if u want to cool, he said he wanted to etc n that it was a special day... anyway moral of the story is this is week 2 since we broke up and havent heard from him now in over a week... my sister says NC will get him back n i shouldnt have written to him b4 n thats y hes not writing back anymore. i want the option to get back with him. what is the best strategy? thnx
Lost&Found Posted November 2, 2009 Posted November 2, 2009 The best strategy is go NC and move on with your life. He may come back eventually, but by them you probably wont want him.
Author xxDayamGirlxx Posted November 2, 2009 Author Posted November 2, 2009 The best strategy is go NC and move on with your life. He may come back eventually, but by them you probably wont want him. i just deleted him, his friends n fam on facebook!! he has no right to know about my life anymore... your ****ing in or ur out - i cant do this friend **** anymore... aw. so unfair this whole thing it hurts
Lost&Found Posted November 2, 2009 Posted November 2, 2009 It hurts like hell at first - but its the right thing to do and you will be SOOOO thankful later that you did it.
Author xxDayamGirlxx Posted November 2, 2009 Author Posted November 2, 2009 thnx so much. its nice to know ppl care and understand
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