chauncybillops Posted November 1, 2009 Posted November 1, 2009 (edited) I recently became friends with a new group, because my group of friends are always busy working all kinds of hours. I met this girl through them. This girl and a few of her friends only meet up with us on the weekends, so i really dont get to see her that often. I feel like we hit it off, we talk a little here and there. Until One of my friends invites me to the movies. It ends up being just my buddy, her and her friend. It goes pretty well, i buy popcorn we split it, make fun of this terrible movie. I feel like we have a lot of things in common. The next week i asked her to do something over the weekend she agreees, than blows me off. This week we both go to the same party and she completly ignores me. Her friends were showing me much more attention talking ect. She finally stops wandering around and sits down by herself. I jump on the opportunity, even though i have a lot to say i freeze up ( weird). I sit there like and idiot my buddy comes up and chats me up she leaves. I walk out side about an hour later. She is by herself we talk for about 20 seconds, she seems unintrested and walks away. im really confused. I would talk to my friends about this but they gossip a lot and they've said she looks "weird" in a bad way. I find her cute. I dont have anyone to talk to about this.. discuss. is she playing hard to get. did i misread her. what should be my next move ect. ect. thak you for any help. Edited November 1, 2009 by chauncybillops
WTRanger Posted November 1, 2009 Posted November 1, 2009 I have found that if you have to ask yourself the question, "Is he/she into me?" the answer is 99.9% going to be a resounding no. She may be socially awkward or extremely shy, but it seems as if she is giving you the hint that she is not at all interesting in knowing you exist. If you really want to know, ask her. Plain and simple. No games, just actions.
Author chauncybillops Posted November 1, 2009 Author Posted November 1, 2009 I was going to ask her out the day before the party but decided to wait and see how things went. There ended up being a lot of people and it made it very hard to talk to her there. She didnt go out of her way to not talk to me, it just ended up that way. I didnt get that vibe that she want me to talk to her. should of wrote that differently. Think i am going to wait till next weekend see how things go and go from there.
carhill Posted November 1, 2009 Posted November 1, 2009 Her friends were showing me much more attention talking ect. Good. Ask one of them out
boogieboy Posted November 1, 2009 Posted November 1, 2009 Next time you meet a woman, make sure you ask her for a phone number THAT NIGHT. Dont wait and see how it goes. Because chances are sshe will meet someone else in th meantime that will make moves faster than you do. She probably was so disgusted at you that she didnt even want to talk to you anymore, because she knew the new guy she is actually talking on the phone with is a better fit in her opinion.
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