CBIIS1 Posted November 1, 2009 Posted November 1, 2009 What's with the funk these new ex's get into. My three month old ex still has that angry, I don't know who she is funk going on with her. She has become evil , actually, the creepy human being hiding in there for the past 26 years has surfaced and won't go away. I tell her I still love her but deep down I don't really. I just like to see that little smirk on her face when I do. She's getting her jollies thinking she's making me suffer. In fact I tell her I love her every chance I get. I'm going to start asking her to come back soon:D. In reality, my new friend makes me much happier and has made me realize what kind of hell my walk away wife had been trying to put me through. I'm going to have some fun with it. I'm the manipulative controlling type according to the ex, but the friend says I'm just like her deceased husband whom she loved dearly. Go figure. Now what's with the ex-wife's angry thing and personality change ? Its just wierd and how long does she go through life like that? It must be horrible for her. If I hate for long I feel like crap. That's why I forgive. Its easier on me.
JaneDoe35 Posted November 3, 2009 Posted November 3, 2009 What's with the funk these new ex's get into. My three month old ex still has that angry, I don't know who she is funk going on with her. She has become evil , actually, the creepy human being hiding in there for the past 26 years has surfaced and won't go away. I tell her I still love her but deep down I don't really. I just like to see that little smirk on her face when I do. She's getting her jollies thinking she's making me suffer. In fact I tell her I love her every chance I get. I'm going to start asking her to come back soon:D. In reality, my new friend makes me much happier and has made me realize what kind of hell my walk away wife had been trying to put me through. I'm going to have some fun with it. I'm the manipulative controlling type according to the ex, but the friend says I'm just like her deceased husband whom she loved dearly. Go figure. Now what's with the ex-wife's angry thing and personality change ? Its just wierd and how long does she go through life like that? It must be horrible for her. If I hate for long I feel like crap. That's why I forgive. Its easier on me. Interesting post....I guess I sometimes feel like saying things to my husband just to get a reaction, any reaction.... You are correct, it is so weird how they behave. It amuses me that you are looking upon her as some sort of experiment in psychology. But you know what I don't really feel sorry for her. She chose this.
Ronni_W Posted November 3, 2009 Posted November 3, 2009 CBII, When you finally, really, truly get over your ex, you won't have the inclination to post about her You won't need to call her "evil" You won't need to tell the world that she's always been a "creepy human being" Believe me...when you get there, you just won't give enough of a crap to waste even a quarter-ounce of your time and energy on her. And ditto, for when you actually do end up forgiving her. But. Until you do finally, really, truly get over her...yes, it is very difficult to wrap one's head around the break-up EVEN IF there is already a rebound relationship in place. Good luck with your healing and recovery.
phineas Posted November 3, 2009 Posted November 3, 2009 What's with the funk these new ex's get into. My three month old ex still has that angry, I don't know who she is funk going on with her. She has become evil , actually, the creepy human being hiding in there for the past 26 years has surfaced and won't go away. I tell her I still love her but deep down I don't really. I just like to see that little smirk on her face when I do. She's getting her jollies thinking she's making me suffer. In fact I tell her I love her every chance I get. I'm going to start asking her to come back soon:D. In reality, my new friend makes me much happier and has made me realize what kind of hell my walk away wife had been trying to put me through. I'm going to have some fun with it. I'm the manipulative controlling type according to the ex, but the friend says I'm just like her deceased husband whom she loved dearly. Go figure. Now what's with the ex-wife's angry thing and personality change ? Its just wierd and how long does she go through life like that? It must be horrible for her. If I hate for long I feel like crap. That's why I forgive. Its easier on me. LOL! My "wife" & I have been seperated since Arpil. She is with OM now but doesn't want me to know. Halloween night she had the kids for trick or treating. I had a growler of scottish ale & the Evil dead trilogy. Shortly after I finished my growler she calls me saying she is bringing the kids home tonight because they called her in extra early for tomarrow. Most likely she wanted to go to a party with her BF. whatever. I'm not EXACTLY drunk but I got a good buzz. She brings them over & puts them to bed. She's all apologizing & asking how she can make it up & I said "show me your boobs" And they were out & in my face like it was their job. She offered me oral also. Had I not been drinking.... The thing that kills me, she went back to her apartment where the OM was waiting to give her a big kiss. YUCK. I didn't kiss her. I did thank her then politly asked her to leave. LOL! The next day she said she wasn't opposed to no-strings attached sex but she won't be my "sex-toy" & it has to be a secret between us only. From my point of view, she has a boyfriend so that would actually make me the sex toy. What kind of trash has she turned into? OR Was she always like this? I suspect she was screwing around behind my back from day 1. It truely is amazing how she is not the person I thought she was.
WTFO Posted November 3, 2009 Posted November 3, 2009 LOL! My "wife" & I have been seperated since Arpil. She is with OM now but doesn't want me to know. Halloween night she had the kids for trick or treating. I had a growler of scottish ale & the Evil dead trilogy. Shortly after I finished my growler she calls me saying she is bringing the kids home tonight because they called her in extra early for tomarrow. Most likely she wanted to go to a party with her BF. whatever. I'm not EXACTLY drunk but I got a good buzz. She brings them over & puts them to bed. She's all apologizing & asking how she can make it up & I said "show me your boobs" And they were out & in my face like it was their job. She offered me oral also. Had I not been drinking.... The thing that kills me, she went back to her apartment where the OM was waiting to give her a big kiss. YUCK. I didn't kiss her. I did thank her then politly asked her to leave. LOL! The next day she said she wasn't opposed to no-strings attached sex but she won't be my "sex-toy" & it has to be a secret between us only. From my point of view, she has a boyfriend so that would actually make me the sex toy. What kind of trash has she turned into? OR Was she always like this? I suspect she was screwing around behind my back from day 1. It truely is amazing how she is not the person I thought she was. lol.. thats some funny stuff right there. They do change right? It's amazing.. My stbx is exactly like the way she was when we were dating..only to other men. Alot of drinking,and dressing sexy. Man she is so hot on the outside and a demon on the inside..plus I could always tell when there is a full moon....she is just off the charts. Oh, bye the way watch out for STDs bro.
phineas Posted November 3, 2009 Posted November 3, 2009 lol.. thats some funny stuff right there. They do change right? It's amazing.. My stbx is exactly like the way she was when we were dating..only to other men. Alot of drinking,and dressing sexy. Man she is so hot on the outside and a demon on the inside..plus I could always tell when there is a full moon....she is just off the charts. Oh, bye the way watch out for STDs bro. I had to get a test because of her & her not making OM wear a rubber. I couldn't even think of sleeping with her without wearing one which means I'll have to be very lonely,horny & drunk if I wrap up & dive in. 2 out of 3 i'm usually safe. but I guess I was all 3 that night. She was trying to play games asking me why I would want to see her boobs & I asked her why she was so quick to pull them out. LOL!
beachbabyblues Posted November 7, 2009 Posted November 7, 2009 lol.. thats some funny stuff right there. They do change right? It's amazing.. My stbx is exactly like the way she was when we were dating..only to other men. Alot of drinking,and dressing sexy. Man she is so hot on the outside and a demon on the inside..plus I could always tell when there is a full moon....she is just off the charts. Oh, bye the way watch out for STDs bro.[/quote What does the "o" in your sign in name? Is it "off"? love it. p.s good advice on the std's
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