Goatsbreath Posted November 1, 2009 Posted November 1, 2009 Ok, so Thursday this girl tells me she is gonna try and come over Friday night but not sure she will be able to make it as she needs to find a baby sitter, has a busy day, yadda yadda. Keep in mind, we text almost every day and talk on the phone. This however seems intermittent, some days she calls alot and text, other days not so much. So Friday comes and I hear nothing from her all day so I text her and just say Hi at about 8:30. I knew she had to work until 9:45 but sometimes she text from there. She answers shortly after and says "Hey" at about 8:40. I say "whats your status miss XXXX" meaning you free and what not. Then nothing ever...lol. I text her like at 10:40 that night saying "so I guess your not free?" No response and then latter being a idiot I text her a frown face. So Saturday comes and I thought for sure I would hear something, like "sorry, I was really busy taking daughter here and then work and just came home and crashed" something like that but I was still going to be pissed because c'mon, it takes two seconds to just let someone know that. So now its Sunday and still nothing. I sort of want to text her and ask if I did something to piss her off. I mean, really 2 days ago she was blowing up my phone texting and on talking and we were fine. I also have her expensive keyboard at my place. What is going on? Should I text her again or wait for her to text.
chauncybillops Posted November 1, 2009 Posted November 1, 2009 i would give her some time. wait till thursday see if she contacts you. if not txt or call and try to set something up for the weekend
Lishy Posted November 1, 2009 Posted November 1, 2009 No, dont call her again! If she is going cold on you then you contacting her after her ignoring you will just turn her off more! You dont know why she is not contacting you but it is now down to her, after 3 texts from you, to contact you and let you know whats going on! It seems like she has lost interest and you now ignoring her will make or break it, hold tight and let her contact you is my advice!
boogieboy Posted November 1, 2009 Posted November 1, 2009 Yeah Jesus, how needy are you? When they ignore you, thats a hint that they DONT WANT TO TALK TO YOU. You dont have to know why, she just lost interest and you may never know why. Heres something else...when you first start "dating someone" you dont make yourself so available that youre talking all day long before a first kiss. If you cant get a kiss by the 3rd date, then its a lost cause. If you ask a woman out for a certain day and time, and they answer isnt a resounding "YES!", then she isnt interested in you. Got that? Whatever isnt a yes, is a no. ANyone who tells you "Im not sure if im going to be able to make it" is leaving the door open to blow you off. So if they tell you that, you tell them "have a nice life". You gotta deal with more women so you recognise when they are hinting that they arent interested in you. Learn to speak hint.
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