xoxo Posted November 1, 2009 Posted November 1, 2009 This friend of mine lives about 500 miles away. We were platonic (over IM and texts) for a few months, until I visited him 2 months ago. We we pretty intimate...and you know. I came back, things were normal, not weird at all. We were back to being awesome friends, IM'ing and texting almost every day and flirting a bit here and there. I visited him again a week ago. I came back and he's been all MIA. He sent me one text, asking me about something very random. He hasn't really taken the initiative other than that to try to contact me. I called him for some help on something dumb, and he never picked up or called back. I called him up 4 days after I got back, asking if he was okay. He was, he was busy with schoolwork. I totally understand that. I have school and work! But my question is, is he not into me anymore? I am not sure what he is thinking. It is quite unusual for him to be so MIA. I miss my friend. And yes s** makes things awkward, sure, but why this time (2nd time)? Thanks in advance
DelicateMelodies Posted November 2, 2009 Posted November 2, 2009 The same level of friendship you are describing and about the same amount of length, is the same as a long distance friend of mine. And I had been talking to him every single day for hours, then abruptly spent days offline and continuous when I did talk to him it was only being a couple comments every once and while. And it wasn't because I no longer liked him or anything of that sort. It was just simply because, realizing I have been neglecting my studies and trying to get my act together- also realizing talking to him (because enjoying his company so much and loosing all sense of time during IMing) was a main distraction. I'm still trying to figure out proper time management- how to both take time for friends and still get ahead with all my academic work on my plate (but haven't figured it out yet quite just yet). Maybe he's just doing the same. I wouldn't worry about it.
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