kathleeno Posted November 1, 2009 Posted November 1, 2009 Well about a month ago my boyfriend of 6 months dumped me. I live in Australia and he had come here from the UK on a working visa. He had applied for a permanent residency visa in Australia and was told that it would be granted therefore there was no need for me to worry about him leaving. But a week or so before he left he told me the visa didn't go through and the person who gave him the information that he could stay was fired due to giving wrong information. During out final week together he started acted really distant ie-barely talking, not much cuddling, kissing etc and spending time with friends instead of me. Even though i helped him pack and get ready to leave just so i could spend time with him he didnt even try to make the most of the last few days we had. The day he was due to leave he told me he didnt want a long distance relationship as it was not realistic. But if i still wanted to be friends he would email me. I never got that email when he left i have spoken 2 him twice on MSN in a month since he left. I even sent him an email as i was so confused. Anyway his ex girlfriend back in UK was engaged while he was in Australia but now that he is back she is single as i have noticed on her facebook. But the thing is they pursued a long distance relationship while he was in Australia for a month but then she cheated on him so they ended it. He has met up with her a few times and i think they r seeing each other again. Only after a month of us breaking up. How can he be over it so quickly? When i found that out it sounded like i was just being used while he was in Australia. What are your thoughts? Anyway i am having a lot of trouble getting over this and i am finding it hard to move on. Any help would be much appreciated.
NvrSayNvr Posted November 1, 2009 Posted November 1, 2009 Honestly, it sounds like you did get used but you should not wallow in it. Of course it hurts. I DON'T WANT TO MINIMIZE WHAT YOU'RE GOING THROUGH but you seem so smart...Just cut your losses, don't ever speak with the jerk again and go spoil yourself with hair, nails, new dress and go have yourself a good time. Don't dwell on him. He's not worth it!!
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