TwilightSky Posted November 1, 2009 Posted November 1, 2009 I think people here lied about my looks when I posted my pic, saying there wasn't anything wrong with me. When the most recent opinion I got of the pic was "gross!" (I didn't willingly show it, someone else did, I heard the response, from a girl). I KNOW I am hideous and ugly, I just wish people would've come out and said what specific features I needed to fix. Is there any way to get the truth about your looks?
boogieboy Posted November 1, 2009 Posted November 1, 2009 no one told you that you were gross, stop fishing for compliments. Be a man and have confidence in the cards that you were dealt. Tell that bitch shed be lucky to lay her grubby fingers on your chizled face.
Author TwilightSky Posted November 1, 2009 Author Posted November 1, 2009 no one told you that you were gross, stop fishing for compliments. Be a man and have confidence in the cards that you were dealt. Tell that bitch shed be lucky to lay her grubby fingers on your chizled face. I could see why you would think that, but I'm not fishing for compliments. I hate my "general" look, but I don't know specifically my needed changes.
Pedigree Posted November 1, 2009 Posted November 1, 2009 Everyone has their tastes and not everyone will like you. Unfortunate I know, but that's life.
Author TwilightSky Posted November 1, 2009 Author Posted November 1, 2009 Everyone has their tastes and not everyone will like you. Unfortunate I know, but that's life. That's why I wanted to know what I should change in order to make myself more appealing to the general population.
Jaytb Posted November 1, 2009 Posted November 1, 2009 wow, I just saw your pic, you look fine. I don't see any reason someone would lie to you.
TaleSpin Posted November 2, 2009 Posted November 2, 2009 I went and found your picture in a previous post. There's nothing wrong with you, except maybe Body Dysmorphic Disorder. You're attractive. I would give you a 7.5 on a 1 to 10 scale.
gypsy_nicky Posted November 2, 2009 Posted November 2, 2009 you look like a skinnier version of jeremy sisto
Author TwilightSky Posted November 2, 2009 Author Posted November 2, 2009 I went and found your picture in a previous post. There's nothing wrong with you, except maybe Body Dysmorphic Disorder. You're attractive. I would give you a 7.5 on a 1 to 10 scale. So, what is stopping from being an 8? Am I too thin?
t0ri Posted November 4, 2009 Posted November 4, 2009 I highly doubt people would be anything but honest when judging your looks over an internet forum. What is stopping you from being more attractive is your lack of confidence. You're attractive! Nobody is perfect, so don't strive to be a "perfect ten." Work on your self-esteem and it'll shine through, increasing your attractiveness.
threebyfate Posted November 4, 2009 Posted November 4, 2009 Well if you're showing shirtless pictures to women who don't know you, that might have been the cause for her saying "gross". Some don't want to see shirtless men, when they don't know them. I went back to your old thread and checked out your pics. You're fine. If you're not attracting women, it's not because of your looks. What it might be, is difficult to know, without knowing you in real life. It could be body language, actions, your speech pattern, whatever.
Author TwilightSky Posted November 4, 2009 Author Posted November 4, 2009 Well if you're showing shirtless pictures to women who don't know you, that might have been the cause for her saying "gross". Some don't want to see shirtless men, when they don't know them. I went back to your old thread and checked out your pics. You're fine. If you're not attracting women, it's not because of your looks. What it might be, is difficult to know, without knowing you in real life. It could be body language, actions, your speech pattern, whatever. No, someone found the pic online (must've gotten around) and showed them that. Someone said it was found on a dating site with the "looking for men" thing checked, from what I gathered that was included in the pic, maybe that's what they were saying "gross!" about (it ended up on more than one person's cell phone I think). I know that sounds really weird, but I know some weird local people that would do that to someone. Anyway, about your comments, well let me say that I am not aggressive with women at all. So I don't know if I attract them or not. I highly doubt people would be anything but honest when judging your looks over an internet forum. What is stopping you from being more attractive is your lack of confidence. You're attractive! Nobody is perfect, so don't strive to be a "perfect ten." Work on your self-esteem and it'll shine through, increasing your attractiveness. I guess I just wanted to improve my appearance. Anyway, I appreciate your compliments. I'll try and work on my confidence. PS, is there a way I can get that pic removed from my old thread? I don't feel comfortable with that being up anymore.
threebyfate Posted November 4, 2009 Posted November 4, 2009 Internalizing and overthinking issues, can and will kill your self-esteem. Forget that nonsense and focus on your strengths.
euroxx Posted November 4, 2009 Posted November 4, 2009 That's why I wanted to know what I should change in order to make myself more appealing to the general population. Try your self esteem.
Barby Posted November 4, 2009 Posted November 4, 2009 I just saw your pic...you're a very handsome guy. If people are insulting your looks maybe you should just stop hanging around jerks!
Author TwilightSky Posted November 5, 2009 Author Posted November 5, 2009 I just saw your pic...you're a very handsome guy. If people are insulting your looks maybe you should just stop hanging around jerks! All lies! lol! Thanks, I'm not sure what to think now.
Author TwilightSky Posted November 7, 2009 Author Posted November 7, 2009 Actually, I realized that isn't true at all. At work, some guy asked a girl if I looked like the new Spoc or the old one, at first she said I didn't look like either. Then, he pressed her saying "if you had to choose one" then she said the old one. Thing is I KNOW (for a fact) that I am ugly. Really wish ppl would stop being cowards and just say what I need to change physically.
Malenfant Posted November 7, 2009 Posted November 7, 2009 I went and found your picture in a previous post. There's nothing wrong with you, except maybe Body Dysmorphic Disorder. You're attractive. I would give you a 7.5 on a 1 to 10 scale. which post? I cant comment if i havent seen the pic!
carhill Posted November 7, 2009 Posted November 7, 2009 Here's a similar thread by the OP: http://www.loveshack.org/forums/showthread.php?p=2449887 He changed the album URL to kill the link, which is exactly what I was going to suggest His real issue, as mine was at his age, is fear of rejection. He himself stated this as one of the reasons he's never asked out a young lady, IIRC.
ann09 Posted November 7, 2009 Posted November 7, 2009 Confidence is sexy. Lack of self esteem isn't. I've never been attracted to the typical good looking man. Flaws are oddly attractive to me. Stop obsessing over your looks and start liking yourself more. Women will pick up on this and be more intrigued by you. I still believe, you can't fully love another until you love yourself.
Author TwilightSky Posted November 7, 2009 Author Posted November 7, 2009 Confidence is sexy. Lack of self esteem isn't. I've never been attracted to the typical good looking man. Flaws are oddly attractive to me. Stop obsessing over your looks and start liking yourself more. Women will pick up on this and be more intrigued by you. I still believe, you can't fully love another until you love yourself. Like I said before, confidence with lack of other useful qualities doesn't mean anything.
MrFun Posted November 8, 2009 Posted November 8, 2009 I KNOW I am hideous and ugly You're right. You are ugly and hideous. Just it's not your looks, it's your attitude toward yourself. Lose that and you'll gain a hell of a lot more than you think.
Author TwilightSky Posted November 11, 2009 Author Posted November 11, 2009 Yes, I am probably hideous on the inside as well. I'm getting to the point of not caring.
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