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I don't understand why I'm "shallow" (and more importantly, why it's "bad") if I like girls with good looks. It seems contradictory for girls who paint their nails, style their hair, wear expensive clothes, to be horrified to know that I like them for their looks.

 

Not only are they just as "shallow" as me for decorating themselves in the first place. But the whole point of them using make-up and hot clothing is to attract men. So why should they be angry that their tactics are working?

 

Second, everyone likes different things. I don't know why liking her looks is worse than liking her personality. Both can change, because of deliberate actions, time, and circumstance. Perhaps we think that it's not "fair" that some women are preferred because they look better. But how is it less fair than men not being picked because they're too shy?

 

Therefore:

 

I think the reason why girls don't like shallow men is because they confuse them with cheaters and players. Just because I like girls for their looks doesn't mean I'm going to cheat or be mean.

Edited by Jerry18
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Everyone is shallow to some extent and anyone who claims otherwise is in denial.

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It's not shallow to like someone because they're good looking. Some people think it's shallow if that's the only reason.

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