Past behavior ALWAYS indicative of future behavior?

[SummerLady]

I think it depends on the situation and the person. My ex is a serial cheater, period. I do not think everyone is like this. I had a guy friend that was in a relationship and the woman he was dating was not making him a priority so he went off and dated someone he knew to fill in the gap. I am not saying its right I am just giving an example. When him and this woman broke up he met someone else and has not cheated on her once as the realtionship is very balanced. I understand the case you are making but every situation and person is different. Can't generalize on this.

[Art_Critic]

When him and this woman broke up he met someone else and has not cheated on her once as the realtionship is very balanced.

 

Till the relationship is no longer balanced.. then he is likely to revert back to his old self and replay the tape he knows.. he isn't happy or getting what he wants so he will look elsewhere.

 

So even the guy you know very well might be a serial cheater but his relationship at this time fits him well..

[SummerLady]

Till the relationship is no longer balanced.. then he is likely to revert back to his old self and replay the tape he knows.. he isn't happy or getting what he wants so he will look elsewhere.

 

So even the guy you know very well might be a serial cheater but his relationship at this time fits him well..

 

 

No I disagree. The problem he made was staying in the relationship. If and when you continue in a relationsip that is not meeting your needs that is your first mistake. Again not a reason to go out and cheat but I see where and why this happens. People that concern me are the ones that smile and tell everyone, even their closest friends and family WE ARE SO HAPPY and are out cheating. That is scary...