4givrnt4gtr Posted October 31, 2009 Posted October 31, 2009 Ok so last night i went out with a friend of mine. He met my ex a few times but didnt know we had broken up. Ofcourse he wanted to know what happened and what not (right after he mentioned how cute he was...like i didnt know that right?) anyway so I tell him what happened. As i was telling him why we broke up I kept having this growing feeling of....wow this is so not over...this is the most silly reason to break up! we didnt even end in a bad note, I have no harsh (longlasting) feelings towards him, he doesnt have any harsh feelings toward me. We still talk once in a while, and we're always so sweet towards each other. The more i thought about it, the less sense it made. However when i think about it i know we cant get back together...specially not right now...the distance is too difficult, and....he is just not in the right place. Im silly...im really silly. I feel dumb writing this....ughh never mind .
cypresa Posted October 31, 2009 Posted October 31, 2009 No you're not silly! I totally feel the same. we broke up for no bad reason - he just couldn't commit to living together. We still talk occasionally and are very very sweet and supportive of each other. Had lunch the other week and it was amazing. Even his best friend said the decision to end the relationship was so arbitrary... it makes me feel like we're both being stupid not being together - we are both still single after 5 months! so i totally get where you're coming from. It makes no sense. But i guess there is nothing we can do - if they are not coming to us asking us to reconcile.... why did you guys break up?
Author 4givrnt4gtr Posted November 3, 2009 Author Posted November 3, 2009 well we broke up mainly because he moved 5 hours away to go to school. We tried to keep it going but he began to focus more on the school and meeting new people etc that he felt he was making a new life and I wasnt being part of it. I tried coming up there but it seemed like i was getting in the way so I ended up telling him we better just let it go before we started resenting each other. I think it was the best decision cuz as I said right now we still think highly of each other and we have good memories of each other. I dont know if I would date him again though.....sometimes i feel like i will, as i am moving to his town next year and Im sure we'll see each other again. Yet...i wonder if its worth it and we can get pass the fact that we let each other go.... i dont know
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