avenger Posted October 31, 2009 Posted October 31, 2009 It seems like in the dating phase people do nothing but cheat. Every woman I went out with lied to me or showed no remorse for thier actions. Now I have a mindset of being single forever.... Single as in having no one lol... Even if a woman was purely interested in me I would more than likely turn her down because I know she will cheat. Maybe I should pray to be single lol Is this right?
CarrieT Posted October 31, 2009 Posted October 31, 2009 No. Everyone does NOT cheat. Can't tell you why you are continually finding only those who do, except that maybe you are hanging with the wrong crowd.
samsungxoxo Posted October 31, 2009 Posted October 31, 2009 Think it depends where you're meeting the women. But no, not everyone cheats...
SoulSearch_CO Posted October 31, 2009 Posted October 31, 2009 No. Everybody does not cheat. You have a hell of a people-picker if all the women you've dated have cheated on you.
Malenfant Posted October 31, 2009 Posted October 31, 2009 (edited) no, of course not everyone cheats. maybe you're choosing the wrong people, but there are faithfull people out there! Edited October 31, 2009 by Malenfant
JustLooking123 Posted October 31, 2009 Posted October 31, 2009 Of course everyone doesn't cheat; that's preposterous. Examine what YOU can control - the type of woman you pick, the warning signs you might be ignoring, the behavior you put up with, etc. What else can you do, right?
imagine Posted October 31, 2009 Posted October 31, 2009 This post can be linked with the post further along "Does everyone cheat" None of my girlfriends ever cheated. One of them complained that my work was their most serious competition. I guess I'm bad!
imagine Posted October 31, 2009 Posted October 31, 2009 This post can be linked with the post further along "Does everyone cheat" None of my girlfriends ever cheated. One of them complained that my work was their most serious competition. I guess I'm bad!
shunter Posted October 31, 2009 Posted October 31, 2009 I think anyone COULD cheat. So if every girl you date cheats then probably you are not satisfying them in some way. Further you probably are not breaking up with any of your girlfriends, so the are ending it with you.... and they are just smart enough to have a guy waiting in the background first. So why is it no girl wants to commit and stay with you? solve that and your next girl wont cheat.
phineas Posted November 2, 2009 Posted November 2, 2009 I've had many woman including my soon to be ex-wife cheat on me. I don't blame women in general & assume everyone cheats (I've never cheated), I blame myself for picking the wrong women.
Dexter Morgan Posted November 2, 2009 Posted November 2, 2009 Think it depends where you're meeting the women. But no, not everyone cheats... I agree. Stay away from clubbers, partiers, bar hoppers, etc.
tami-chan Posted November 2, 2009 Posted November 2, 2009 No, not everyone cheats...However, I think MOST very successful, good looking men cheat.
Author avenger Posted November 8, 2009 Author Posted November 8, 2009 It seam like 60 percent and up do it this day and age.... Why is that? Is it easier to do it now?
tryagaintoday Posted November 9, 2009 Posted November 9, 2009 It seam like 60 percent and up do it this day and age.... Why is that? Is it easier to do it now? Yup, especially true for women. Those days, many were housewives and they have very little chance. Now they are out and working, so yeah, the cheating rate for women went up.
TimH Posted November 9, 2009 Posted November 9, 2009 It seam like 60 percent and up do it this day and age.... Why is that? Is it easier to do it now? Funny I recently read at some website 59% of Women surveyed said they would leave their Man if they were more financially fit.Since they are "stuck" in their married lives,bets are their cheating.Very disturbing.In 100 yrs marriage will be obsolete.
A O Posted November 9, 2009 Posted November 9, 2009 It seems like in the dating phase people do nothing but cheat. What's your definition of cheating in a 'dating' sense? Myself, I'm old-fashioned, I only date one person at a time. That's a stipulation I have that I make known fairly early on. They can take it or leave it. I don't multiple date. .
Boundary Problem Posted November 11, 2009 Posted November 11, 2009 Well you are right this is a difficult area. People don't like to declare themselves and they hedge. And they deny they are dating at all. But there comes a point when a decision has to be made especially if there are the feelings of third parties involved. I'm at a cross roads right now and it is hard to figure out people's intentions. Whether it would be classified as cheating or not, I have no idea.
Jerry18 Posted November 11, 2009 Posted November 11, 2009 It seems like in the dating phase people do nothing but cheat. Every woman I went out with lied to me or showed no remorse for thier actions. Now I have a mindset of being single forever.... Single as in having no one lol... Even if a woman was purely interested in me I would more than likely turn her down because I know she will cheat. Maybe I should pray to be single lol Is this right? You should cheat too. You can't restrict their happiness by telling them to not cheat.
Chrome Barracuda Posted November 11, 2009 Posted November 11, 2009 I'm a guy and i've never cheated... Yep, believe it or not. I've been faithful to every girlfriend. The way i see things, if your gonna cheat or have the compulsion to cheat what is the point of being in a relationship with a woman, when all your gonna do is harm her.\ Be single, live your life on your own terms, but dont drag anyone down because of your OWN crap. Yeah it sucks being single... I'm not happy alot I wish I had a shorty around but it's not easy trusting alot. Your guard stays up. As evidinced on this board and in life why would you waste your time if your only gonna end up hurt in the end. I'd just stay by myself and live my life. my way. But to the op, listen you cant let the past dictate how you will act in the future. You live your life and date freely without worry, without reprecussion. Without issues. Give them a chance. If they mess it up then walk away, simple as that.
Jerry18 Posted November 11, 2009 Posted November 11, 2009 Yep, believe it or not. I've been faithful to every girlfriend. The way i see things, if your gonna cheat or have the compulsion to cheat what is the point of being in a relationship with a woman, when all your gonna do is harm her.\ How? Just don't tell her.
Boundary Problem Posted November 11, 2009 Posted November 11, 2009 You should cheat too. You can't restrict their happiness by telling them to not cheat. Well this answer was so illuminating. A triple negative.
Boundary Problem Posted November 11, 2009 Posted November 11, 2009 Yep, believe it or not. I've been faithful to every girlfriend. The way i see things, if your gonna cheat or have the compulsion to cheat what is the point of being in a relationship with a woman, when all your gonna do is harm her. Give them a chance. If they mess it up then walk away, simple as that. Chrome is right. If you are in, you are in. The answers were here all along.
Chrome Barracuda Posted November 11, 2009 Posted November 11, 2009 How? Just don't tell her. Yeah and when you and her start getting cold sores on your face what your gonna say then??? lol. Like i said before if your gonna do dirt why get involved. just stay single and keep it moving.
ADF Posted November 11, 2009 Posted November 11, 2009 It seems like in the dating phase people do nothing but cheat. Every woman I went out with lied to me or showed no remorse for thier actions. Now I have a mindset of being single forever.... Single as in having no one lol... Even if a woman was purely interested in me I would more than likely turn her down because I know she will cheat. Maybe I should pray to be single lol Is this right? Not everyone cheats--especially not all women. If you are consistently choosing women who lie and cheat, then maybe the trouble is with you.
Spectre Posted November 20, 2009 Posted November 20, 2009 (edited) I know not everyone cheats, but the OP has a point. It seems like I'm finding out more and more of my friends are being cheated on by their gf's. Even girls I've been with who I never thought in a million years would ever be capable of something like this have done it. It's sadly getting to the point where I just can't trust anyone of the opposite sex. My experience with a variety of different girls has only taught me there's always some other dude. Whether it's an ex bf they feel they shouldn't have to stop seeing, or one of the cliche "male friend who I've known since a kid but obviously likes me even tho I'm oblivious" that always turns into something inappropriate. I mean I'm all for sexual revolution, I don't think people should have to wait until marriage to have sex, or anything like that. But it's my biggest pet peeve is cheating. The sad thing is you see it everywhere, on tv..in the movies, etc. Whenever I see something on tv or in a movie about someone cheating my heart drops into my stomach because it justs reminds me of everything I've went through. Edited November 20, 2009 by Spectre
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