ssdd07 Posted October 31, 2009 Posted October 31, 2009 alright, to make this story short, ive liked this particular girl for a while. Now im really terrible with this whole dating thing, usually when i start dating a girl its because she makes the first move and things just take off from there, (im not saying im a mega player or anything because im not it just works out sometimes). anyways, so i really dont have any experience asking girls out on dates, and after getting some advice on how to do it, finally mustured up the courage to. however, the way i presented the invitation worked, however, ive been left thinking now, uh oh, is this a date or not? basically instead of saying something like, oh id like to take you on a date, i said something more along the lines of, oh im going to a movie this weekend would you like to come along? now she said yes. and later i asked her if she wanted to get dinner after and she said yes again, and we've talked all day everyday since ive asked, either phone or just texts throughout the day, so youd think the signs were positive. but when it comes to girls im just an idiot trying to figure out how they see things. i just need some opinions on what other people think is going on here, and what she might be thinking about this.
SoulSearch_CO Posted October 31, 2009 Posted October 31, 2009 I think you played it REAL smooth and it really could go either way once you're on the "date." If, during the course of the date, you decide you don't want it to be, do not make physical contact of any sort and be completely platonic. But if you're feeling sparks, make sure you make physical contact. Physical contact on a first date can make or break whether it IS a DATE or two friends hanging out. Light touches on the arm maybe once or twice...you can lean towards her during the movie to whisper something and gauge how she takes you being in her personal space...eye contact is great (don't stare her down, though)...and IF the opening is there at the end of the date for a kiss and it feels right - go for it (just a peck on the lips). And it's also a good idea to express interest in seeing her again - even if you don't necessarily nail down a specific date/time right there. Good luck.
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