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lovesir New Member

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Well if any of you actually bother to even read this then i would like some advice on what to do ok well im a sophmore in high school and im 15 and i made a friend freshmen year and we got along great and we understood each other and i never tell anyone about anything and their was something about her that was different and i felt very comfortable around her and i opened up for once and then when she told me about guys that she liked i noticed that i hated it when she did specially if she says really good things about them and things moved on it turned out the guy she liked was really just a jerk and she just moved on and we kept talking and preety soon we started having eye contact every single day we walked in the hallways 2gether I WALKED HER TO HER BUS EVERYDAY and everyone said we look cute together and always asked if we go out and we bothe always said no and then we were having our last dance freshmen year but a week b4 that she started making very poor decisions she began insulting ME very harshly and started making fun of me and we were both pretty popular and i guess it just got to her and one of our friends and her came and sat down next to me and she said i need to talk 2 you and i was like ok and her friend was sitting right next 2 her and she started saying how i had the best personality and how i made her laugh and then she said do you want to go out with me and the funny thing is i heard her friend wispering to her evrything he was saying and i said no and she said why and i was like i can here jamie(her friend) wispering everything to you and then he got up and said omg i just lost 5 bucks and i got up and left and then we had a basketball game and she said so miguel when are we gonna start going out and i said never and i told her that their was a reason and she said why and i said ill tell you later and the reason was cuz i have really strict parents and they dont want me to have a gf until i get a job and then we kept going and then we left .the next day one of my friends grabbed some salt and asked her ill pay you 1 dollar if u poor salt on miguel(me) and she did i got really pissed and i slid her doWn to the other side of the bench and told her to get away and i got up and left and then at the end of the day she apologized 2 me and i was like whatever ok and like a couple seconds b4 i was gonna ask her to the dance she said u know jamie asked me out to the dance and my heart dropped and then i wanted to get away from her 4 a while and then i noticed she started saying to everyone that i was mad at her and little by little i just decided to not talk to her and THEN I DECIDED TO CLEAR THE AID AND TOLD HER THAT SHES ONE OF THE MOST AMAZING PEOPLE PEOPLE IN THE WORLD AND THAT I WILL ALWAYS REMEMBER HER AND SHE ALWAYS GONNA HAVE A PLACE IN MY HEART AND THE SHE TOLD ME THAT WHEN SHE READ THAT SHE SAID IT MADE HER CRY AND WE MOVED ON AND THE NOW WE ARE IN OUR SOPHMORE YEAR AND i made new friends and now we talk but were not as close as we use to and she always says hi to me on the hallways and i always say hi back but ive wanted so badly to run up to her and talk to her and tell her i miss her and that i need her and just hug her for the longest time and im afraid of how she might react now that we havent talked closely for almost 5 months and ive tried to hug her but shes always surrounded by other guys and i freeze evrytime what should i do

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Well if any of you actually bother to even read this then i would like some advice on what to do ok well im a sophmore in high school and im 15 and i made a friend freshmen year and we got along great and we understood each other and i never tell anyone about anything and their was something about her that was different and i felt very comfortable around her and i opened up for once and then when she told me about guys that she liked i noticed that i hated it when she did specially if she says really good things about them and things moved on it turned out the guy she liked was really just a jerk and she just moved on and we kept talking and preety soon we started having eye contact every single day we walked in the hallways 2gether I WALKED HER TO HER BUS EVERYDAY and everyone said we look cute together and always asked if we go out and we bothe always said no and then we were having our last dance freshmen year but a week b4 that she started making very poor decisions she began insulting ME very harshly and started making fun of me and we were both pretty popular and i guess it just got to her and one of our friends and her came and sat down next to me and she said i need to talk 2 you and i was like ok and her friend was sitting right next 2 her and she started saying how i had the best personality and how i made her laugh and then she said do you want to go out with me and the funny thing is i heard her friend wispering to her evrything he was saying and i said no and she said why and i was like i can here jamie(her friend) wispering everything to you and then he got up and said omg i just lost 5 bucks and i got up and left and then we had a basketball game and she said so miguel when are we gonna start going out and i said never and i told her that their was a reason and she said why and i said ill tell you later and the reason was cuz i have really strict parents and they dont want me to have a gf until i get a job and then we kept going and then we left .the next day one of my friends grabbed some salt and asked her ill pay you 1 dollar if u poor salt on miguel(me) and she did i got really pissed and i slid her doWn to the other side of the bench and told her to get away and i got up and left and then at the end of the day she apologized 2 me and i was like whatever ok and like a couple seconds b4 i was gonna ask her to the dance she said u know jamie asked me out to the dance and my heart dropped and then i wanted to get away from her 4 a while and then i noticed she started saying to everyone that i was mad at her and little by little i just decided to not talk to her and THEN I DECIDED TO CLEAR THE AID AND TOLD HER THAT SHES ONE OF THE MOST AMAZING PEOPLE PEOPLE IN THE WORLD AND THAT I WILL ALWAYS REMEMBER HER AND SHE ALWAYS GONNA HAVE A PLACE IN MY HEART AND THE SHE TOLD ME THAT WHEN SHE READ THAT SHE SAID IT MADE HER CRY AND WE MOVED ON AND THE NOW WE ARE IN OUR SOPHMORE YEAR AND i made new friends and now we talk but were not as close as we use to and she always says hi to me on the hallways and i always say hi back but ive wanted so badly to run up to her and talk to her and tell her i miss her and that i need her and just hug her for the longest time and im afraid of how she might react now that we havent talked closely for almost 5 months and ive tried to hug her but shes always surrounded by other guys and i freeze evrytime what should i do

 

No paragraphs, no punctuation = no advice. Jesus Christ, is this the kind of sh*t the are accepting in high schools these days?

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Yikes, a wall of text :confused:

 

what should i do?
If you like a girl, you ask her out on a date. Save the hugging and missing her for later. One step at a time. Ask her out in front of the other guys. Scary. If she rejects you, smile, and go ask out one of her friends :)
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