Thebob Posted October 30, 2009 Posted October 30, 2009 EVERY 10 days, we post on this forum either we have kept NC or not. You have to be honest and you can't cheat, be true to yourself. People who break NC lose all dignity to themselves and they are back to square one. Money will be kinda hard to accomplish with addresses and what not so lets stick with dignity. Lets be strong, and in the end, we'll be fully cured! The bet starts NOW!! Good Luck, Have Fun Thebob
rp123 Posted October 31, 2009 Posted October 31, 2009 Nice new thread.... I'm betting!!!! Just had a count up, is actually 49 days NC. Will be reporting back on this thread at 59 days ( I hope so anyway....because I'm right near breaking point..) Good luck to all those willing to take on this challenge!!!
hopesndreams Posted October 31, 2009 Posted October 31, 2009 21 days NC for me. Feel myself getting stronger and stronger mentally, emotionally. I am so pleased with the results. There is no going back.
angelface78 Posted October 31, 2009 Posted October 31, 2009 23 days NC...... Damn.....we can do this!!!! Im gonna win this bet cause i wont call this fool ever!!!
Taucher Posted October 31, 2009 Posted October 31, 2009 55 days NC for me here. I am finding it easy to not contact her to be honest (what would I say?!). But I am also hurt that she has not contacted me. I will NEVER initiate contact with her. I feel like I dont know her any more, it would be awkward. I miss her though. T
Author Thebob Posted October 31, 2009 Author Posted October 31, 2009 2 months here, see you all in ten days, don't forget
4givrnt4gtr Posted October 31, 2009 Posted October 31, 2009 oh oh this is fun! ok so far ive gone....5 days....the longest ive gone is...18 days..wow im horrrrible lol. I guess this delusions of mine dont help...but in! See ya in 10 days!
mickleb Posted October 31, 2009 Posted October 31, 2009 I LOVE this thread, Thebob! Clever guy.. I'm at three months. Have very similar outlook to Taucher, although I do feel remarkably 'moved on', at this point. Can clearly see all the guy's faults and, honestly, don't want all that sh*t in my life. I miss the good times but they were good because I trusted him. Now I don't, so stuff it! NC is a very powerful tool for changing your life. You realise if you can just suck up this sh*t and still carry on then, boy - you can do anything! I'm more optimistic, at this point, about my future than ever before - and I was pretty optimistic before I met him. Way to go, NC people! And Happy Hallowe'en! (I'm on the beer tonight!) x
cypresa Posted October 31, 2009 Posted October 31, 2009 I'm in. Had lunch with my ex 3 weeks ago - had email flurry after - now nothing. So i am officially in NC. Day 17 see you in ten days! x
Dark_of_the_Moon Posted October 31, 2009 Posted October 31, 2009 If I had posted yesterday...I would have had a good count. But, I had an e-mail from him this morning. Opened all the old wounds up and I am in tears again. Stupid woman I am. Why did I read it? It makes no sense to still care for such a guy. He made his choice. day one....again.
hopesndreams Posted October 31, 2009 Posted October 31, 2009 I had accidentally opened an email, 5 or so days ago, but did not respond to it. Even though he was begging for a response. I use to cave. Not anymore!!! I won't, for me, count that as breaking NC. I am in control, can feel the power, am not caving. Day 22
mickleb Posted November 1, 2009 Posted November 1, 2009 If I had posted yesterday...I would have had a good count. But, I had an e-mail from him this morning. Opened all the old wounds up and I am in tears again. Stupid woman I am. Why did I read it? It makes no sense to still care for such a guy. He made his choice. day one....again. Dearest DOTM Don't be so hard on yourself! READING an email isn't breaking NC! I think we're allowed to decide if we want to read what their grovelly little asses have to say! Where were you at before you committed this hideous crime?! Count on from there. x
Dark_of_the_Moon Posted November 2, 2009 Posted November 2, 2009 Dearest DOTM Don't be so hard on yourself! READING an email isn't breaking NC! I think we're allowed to decide if we want to read what their grovelly little asses have to say! Where were you at before you committed this hideous crime?! Count on from there. x Thank you Mickleb. It just feels like it put be back, but thank you....made me feel better seeing your message.
Sukichan Posted November 4, 2009 Posted November 4, 2009 I'm in too! I'm at day 56 of NC =) Will post back in 10 days =)
rp123 Posted November 9, 2009 Posted November 9, 2009 59 days and holding steady!!! Proud of myself, and all of you. Feel so much more dignity, and respect for myself!! We need some new recruits to our thread!!
Taucher Posted November 10, 2009 Posted November 10, 2009 10 days since I last posted on here so here I am again. Have kept NC of course. It's easier I think than contacting her. How hard would that be?! I dread hearing from her but am dissapointed when I see an empty inbox once again. Anyway, its been 65 days of NC. I will NEVER initiate contact with that girl. T
hopesndreams Posted November 10, 2009 Posted November 10, 2009 I lost count because I'm not counting. I know for fact there will be NC on my end, for life. Yay me!
angelface78 Posted November 10, 2009 Posted November 10, 2009 IM CHECKING IN!!!! Today i am 34 days NC since i broke my 3 months NC!!!! I will never call this guy again!! Im proud of myself and although some days i miss him so much other days im just so angry!! Im just really dreading the holidays and New Years but i guess thats life. I really have suffered so much but im alive and i feel like the worst days are behind me. The days i used to wake up with panic attacks are pretty much over!! Every now and then i feel a little anxious. I dont cry anymore..if i do its just 1 or two tears...lol!!! Overall i guess im healing!!! I will check back in 10 days. ***Thebob im still in your bet and ill be here indefinetly!!!
Author Thebob Posted November 10, 2009 Author Posted November 10, 2009 haha k sounds good angel! we got this easy, every 10 days will be so much easier than overtime this forum will be absolutely pointless haha
tryagaintoday Posted November 11, 2009 Posted November 11, 2009 I'd stopped counting 'cause I don't care anymore. I think maybe it's been 2 months or slightly less than 3 months? I dunno. I'd moved on The thing I find harder is refraining from contacting my current date all the time...hahahaha
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