Johnstamos77 Posted October 30, 2009 Posted October 30, 2009 You break up with your bf because there was something that really bothered you and you needed time alone to get over it yourself. You were also very angry about it. My question is, do you want the guy to totally leave you alone or occasionnaly contact you once in awhile just for him to say he misses you? Do girls girls try to get over it or just to try and get over the guy? I miss my gf so much and I wrote a very touching letter but not sure if I wanna send it to her or just for me to read to get over things.
Dexter Morgan Posted October 30, 2009 Posted October 30, 2009 Man up! She dumped you, and you want to send her a sappy letter showing her that she can have you wrapped around her finger any time she likes? Send her a message of NC, move on. Believe me, you will forget all about her once you are with another girl. And funny thing is, if she finds out you are dating someone, or out there dating, she will probably end up contacting you then because you are starting to get out of her reach. Don't be a lapdog, get out, have fun. There are TONS of fish in the sea. And you may need to think about the possibility that whatever reason she gave you is not the reason at all. she probably wanted to date other guys.
Author Johnstamos77 Posted October 30, 2009 Author Posted October 30, 2009 Well it was my fault thats why and I feel like I should put away my pride and tell her how I feel. We got back together before this but couldn't face the fact that I was seeing someone else the last time I broke up with her. When she was trying to get me back I was dodging her out and now its all comin back to me.
Author Johnstamos77 Posted October 30, 2009 Author Posted October 30, 2009 The letter is more into me telling her how I feel about her and that I am happy if she find someone new. Tells her that Im always here for her.
hopesndreams Posted October 30, 2009 Posted October 30, 2009 She broke up with you but made it appear the door is open a crack for you both to get back together. Either she didn't have the guts to tell it like it is, and she's done, or she is interested in other guys or guy but if things don't work out with him or them, you'll be there for her, if she wanted you back. If you contact her in any way during this time, then she knows what you are up to, what you are thinking, etc. She just won't miss ya and it gives her chance to wean herself off you. Go NC. Going NC will perk her interest in you, if she truly is undecided or she will be relieved you don't contact her anymore.
hopesndreams Posted October 30, 2009 Posted October 30, 2009 Well it was my fault thats why and I feel like I should put away my pride and tell her how I feel. We got back together before this but couldn't face the fact that I was seeing someone else the last time I broke up with her. When she was trying to get me back I was dodging her out and now its all comin back to me. Oh, you were seeing someone else when you broke up with her once upon a time. I get it now. Once she got you back from the other girl, a competition of sorts, she won the prize. Only thing is, she didn't think the prize was worth having in the end.
Author Johnstamos77 Posted October 30, 2009 Author Posted October 30, 2009 Thanks hopesndreams. I really appreaciate your reply. We have always been on and off and this time seems worst. We never properly said goodbye as when I was with her physically, we were so much in love. We never did get the chance to talk about it physically as last thing she said to me was I need time alone and I need to get over it myself. So it feels like it never closed. I guess going NC is the best way and I should just keep that letter to myself. I also dont want to regret that I didnt do everything I could. I honestly dont expect her to come back to me after reading my letter but its just a way to show her how I feel and I dont truely deserve her after everything I did.
Author Johnstamos77 Posted October 30, 2009 Author Posted October 30, 2009 We got back together and then I told her about the girl after. I just wanted to be honest with her. I know for a fact if I didnt tell her we would be together right now.
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