ladymistique Posted October 30, 2009 Share Posted October 30, 2009 Hi again, LSers! Man, I love this forum. When I first came, I was soooooooooo depressed, terrified, and insecure. I felt I would never find love again, I was unattractive and no one worthy would want to be with me. I was betrayed by someone I really cared about and the loss of the relationship was a terrible thing. I didn't post often but when I did, I would get honest and supportive feedback. This helped alot. When I didn't post, I would creep around and look at other posts and this would help me too. Now, I won't say I am 100% over it; first of all, I'm not. Secondly, I don't want to jinx it if I am . But I can say that I am in a much nicer place than when I first came on board. And no, I am not dating. I am not interested right now but I am getting the sense that I will be soon! So, don't put too much stock in the old adage "to get over somebody, you need to get under/on top of someone else". Yes, it could accelerate the healing process and it is a very nice way to spend time, but it's not necessary. It could also be detrimental if you are playing with someone else's emotions while you sift through your own emotional baggage. I am happy that I am okay with taking care of myself right now. It's good. It's only going to get better. This post is huge, jeez. I guess what I am trying to say is that I feel more steady now and ready to help out other LShackers. And this progress wouldn't have been possible with you guys. Oh yes, in case there is ANY doubt.............. NC all they way! No half-stepping. Peace. Link to post Share on other sites
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