Johnstamos77 Posted October 30, 2009 Posted October 30, 2009 Hi trying to get some opinion and advice of my ex gf of over 2 years thats always on and off. We broke up 2 weeks ago but never properly said goodbye or even closed our relationship. It was done all on the phone instantly, but when I was with her physically we were happily in love. Reason we broke up is because she couldnt handle the fact I was slightly seeing someone else the last time we broke up. She just said she needs time alone for herself to get over it and now shes acting like she hates me. Been trying hard to get me jealous about her seeing other guys. Im confused and twisted about the whole situation and always thought we would just get back together. This time seems different and I need to ease my mind of her. So what are the chances she comes back to me and what is best possible option for myself?
LovelyDaze Posted October 30, 2009 Posted October 30, 2009 I say continue NC and give each other some space to really think. I have an ex that I KNOW is not good for me or at least the relationship is a craphole that won't get any better if reunited. Don't be afraid to lose her if you two don't talk. I've had exes who dumped me horribly that came back after weeks and one came back within the week! Hang in there, just concentrate on making your own personal world better so that if you two do get back together, you will be already content with life without her as it is.
Lamak Posted October 30, 2009 Posted October 30, 2009 The best choice is to begin NC and not to worry about her contacting you. Try to focus on fixing the things that might have you caused guys to have such a rocky relationship. You have to remember though, that there's a low chance you two get back together for good.
Author Johnstamos77 Posted October 30, 2009 Author Posted October 30, 2009 Thanks for the advice guys. It hurts me so much for the fact we were so good when physically together and the things we talked about if we were seperated. Just gave me hope about those days we brake up. And for the fact if I havent told her the truth id still be with her right now. Drives me crazy
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