Lamak Posted October 30, 2009 Posted October 30, 2009 Hrm, it's my first thread/rant! :> Well, today I was late to one of my classes and the hall was eerily clear. Out of nowheres appears my ex coming up the stairs while I'm on my way down. She didn't look at me, yet we both gave out half hearted pleasantries. It was like two complete strangers bumping into each other. This event has saddened me to an extent. I'm past the point of mourning the relationship, but at the same time it's just sad to see love die. It's sad to think that we'll never interact with each other in the same way ever again. She only approaches me for trivial matters (showing me new clothes, asking favors, wanting pity), but I don't even know why she bothers. I'm not really asking for any advice, but I'm just wondering if it's normal to feel the way I do? Also, when do the physical symptoms go away (nervousness around ex)?
RoMeIx Posted October 30, 2009 Posted October 30, 2009 I think it is normal to feel like that. One of the saddest things for me to think of since my break up are the unrealized plans and dreams you had with you ex. What I mean is when you are with someone in a romantic way, you have plans with them for the future, common goals etc... and then suddenly they are not going to be happening. It is also sad to think that someone who was such a significant part of your life at one point is now nothing more than a stranger. It hurts alot, I am still hurting alot.
LovelyDaze Posted October 30, 2009 Posted October 30, 2009 Oh yes. Just like my post of caring whether my ex wants me on his MySpace list or not. I just feel very sad that he and I were so close once and now it seems like he loathes the ground I walk on. Let's make a pact. You continue being pleasant to your ex without falling for her charms and I will continue staying off my ex's page and not uncovering that wound again.
JaggedRoad Posted October 30, 2009 Posted October 30, 2009 I think it is normal to feel like that. One of the saddest things for me to think of since my break up are the unrealized plans and dreams you had with you ex. What I mean is when you are with someone in a romantic way, you have plans with them for the future, common goals etc... and then suddenly they are not going to be happening. It is also sad to think that someone who was such a significant part of your life at one point is now nothing more than a stranger. It hurts alot, I am still hurting alot. Took the words out of my... fingertips. Can I use that in my memoir? You cannot claim any royalties though xP
RoMeIx Posted October 30, 2009 Posted October 30, 2009 Took the words out of my... fingertips. Can I use that in my memoir? You cannot claim any royalties though xP For 10% of your royalties its all yours.
JaggedRoad Posted October 30, 2009 Posted October 30, 2009 Hmmm... you drive a hard bargain. 10% of a bazillion dollars is quite a lot... I think I'll pass x)
Author Lamak Posted October 30, 2009 Author Posted October 30, 2009 I think it is normal to feel like that. One of the saddest things for me to think of since my break up are the unrealized plans and dreams you had with you ex. What I mean is when you are with someone in a romantic way, you have plans with them for the future, common goals etc... and then suddenly they are not going to be happening. It is also sad to think that someone who was such a significant part of your life at one point is now nothing more than a stranger. It hurts alot, I am still hurting alot. It is sad when future events are irrelevant. Birthdays, holidays, and events. All you can really do is create a new life. Oh yes. Just like my post of caring whether my ex wants me on his MySpace list or not. I just feel very sad that he and I were so close once and now it seems like he loathes the ground I walk on. Let's make a pact. You continue being pleasant to your ex without falling for her charms and I will continue staying off my ex's page and not uncovering that wound again. That's something I can shake on. It's not really hard to talk to her about trivial things, it's just that I get extremely emotionally exhausted although it's been 5 months since the break. "You look nice today" turns into a near nervous breakdown on my part. I wish she went to another school.
Thebob Posted October 30, 2009 Posted October 30, 2009 Just dont contact her at all, or if she comes up to you tell her that you've moved on and don't want to talk to her. I know it's hard but you have to do it. Thebob
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