POPEYE777 Posted October 30, 2009 Posted October 30, 2009 There is this very attractive girl that I have seen in a different office a couple times but I never have gotten the nerves to ask her out or to get her number. I have never even tried having a conversation with hwe nor even smiled or said hi. Will I get rejected if one day I just went up to her and asked her for her number despite all this ignoring that I've done? Afterall, she has seen me go in and out of her office so its not like she never noticed me before. I've just never spoken to her.
GoneButNotForgotten Posted October 30, 2009 Posted October 30, 2009 You may want to try a little bit of conversation first. Just to judge her interest and things. The cold approach may work, but I haven't seen it go well very often.
Lamak Posted October 30, 2009 Posted October 30, 2009 It would be a good idea to have a conversation before you start asking for her number. For all you know she could be a lesbian.
ADF Posted October 30, 2009 Posted October 30, 2009 There is this very attractive girl that I have seen in a different office a couple times but I never have gotten the nerves to ask her out or to get her number. I have never even tried having a conversation with hwe nor even smiled or said hi. Will I get rejected if one day I just went up to her and asked her for her number despite all this ignoring that I've done? Afterall, she has seen me go in and out of her office so its not like she never noticed me before. I've just never spoken to her. Asking for a phone number before you've even had a conversation might come across as strange. Maybe even creepy. I'd get to know her a little first.
SoulSearch_CO Posted October 30, 2009 Posted October 30, 2009 Start talking to her, first. With the ignoring, she may have you pegged as either: hating her or being stuck-up. Time to break the ice, dude.
Els Posted October 30, 2009 Posted October 30, 2009 I must admit that I find it rather unbelievable how anyone can even want to hook up with someone that they've never even spoken to before, and thus don't even know anything about. I agree with the rest - just start saying Hello or something to her first. Seriously, if someone who's always ignored me before ever comes up to me and demands my phone number first thing, I'd report him to management.
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