mikeyg323 Posted October 29, 2009 Posted October 29, 2009 Ok there is this girl I like in my class. We were once partners in a group assignment, and i got her email and phone number because the group passed around all of our contact info. Well I bravely added her to facebook and we've been chatting on there quite often now. Only thing bugging me is that her status says complicated relationship. She hasn't spoken of it, and there aren't any pictures of her and another guy on her profile? There aren't any guys posting sappy stuff on her wall? She's dropped little hints, such as once we were talking about what i would look like with dreads, and she said i'm a cutie either way. And she is a bit of the shy type too so I am sure this was a little difficult for her to say. She also said she 'was definitely creeping my photos' and commented about a trip i went on, she's asked me if i smoked, what i like to do on weekends, i asked her the past 2 weekends what her plans were, and she said she had to work other than that nothing, i hope i find something fun to do, etc. What should I do? I want to hang out with her sometime but I dont know if I would be invading her personal life too much or not. We've been talking for about a month now. Haven't called or texted or hung out or anything, we sit beside each other in class now, other than that it seems fairly casual. Is there a good ice breaker i could say, that would hint at the fact that i am curious about her relationship? or to get her to admit any feelings? thanks for any help
betamanlet Posted October 29, 2009 Posted October 29, 2009 Ok there is this girl I like in my class. We were once partners in a group assignment, and i got her email and phone number because the group passed around all of our contact info. Well I bravely added her to facebook and we've been chatting on there quite often now. Only thing bugging me is that her status says complicated relationship. She hasn't spoken of it, and there aren't any pictures of her and another guy on her profile? There aren't any guys posting sappy stuff on her wall? She's dropped little hints, such as once we were talking about what i would look like with dreads, and she said i'm a cutie either way. And she is a bit of the shy type too so I am sure this was a little difficult for her to say. She also said she 'was definitely creeping my photos' and commented about a trip i went on, she's asked me if i smoked, what i like to do on weekends, i asked her the past 2 weekends what her plans were, and she said she had to work other than that nothing, i hope i find something fun to do, etc. What should I do? I want to hang out with her sometime but I dont know if I would be invading her personal life too much or not. We've been talking for about a month now. Haven't called or texted or hung out or anything, we sit beside each other in class now, other than that it seems fairly casual. Is there a good ice breaker i could say, that would hint at the fact that i am curious about her relationship? or to get her to admit any feelings? thanks for any help This depends how old you are all. I would say if this is high school, she's not over some guy. If you're older, she's seeing a married guy or something like that. I know one person on FB who says "it's complicated" and she's sorta close in age to me, and her situation is she lives with her ex husband.
Author mikeyg323 Posted October 29, 2009 Author Posted October 29, 2009 (edited) both 21 I am actually only 15 days older than her Edited October 29, 2009 by mikeyg323
betamanlet Posted October 29, 2009 Posted October 29, 2009 I am actually only 15 days older than her how old? high school? c ollege?
Double Posted October 30, 2009 Posted October 30, 2009 If you two talk somewhat regularly I don't understand why you wouldn't just casually bring up that topic in conversation.
amirpc Posted October 30, 2009 Posted October 30, 2009 If you two talk somewhat regularly I don't understand why you wouldn't just casually bring up that topic in conversation. I would just ask her out, in a not intimidating way but also not unclear as to what I mean. I don't think FB status is any sort of real indicator, what matters is how she's acting towards you and it seems to me like she is at least mildly attracted. If you haven't waited too long already.
SoulSearch_CO Posted October 30, 2009 Posted October 30, 2009 I say just ask her out. You never know until you ask. It *might* mean "complicated until something better comes along." But you miss 100% of the shots you don't take - so just go for it....or spend forever wondering. Your choice.
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