Miguelrg Posted October 29, 2009 Posted October 29, 2009 So here i am, a milestone for me, when it first happened i was a mess, shaved my head, begged, cried pleaded. Then something happened, the last straw and since i have been NC, even though i did nc to heal i still had all these false expecations and hopes that she would miss me and contact me. So 9 months down the road what do i do now? i know i'm not over it because i'm still counting the months, it just amazes me how someone call tell their family they want to marry you and have your kids, have you fly across the world then dump you 4 days later....then not hear a peep for 6 months? It still messes with me even though i shouldn't care, it's like did she really love me? anyway these past few weeks i've been really down about it all over again, almost breaking nc ( well thinking about it) but it wouldn't be different would it? The dreams don't stop either How long as everyone else been nc for and broken up? any advice? Feel a bit lost now
Thebob Posted October 29, 2009 Posted October 29, 2009 Man we all feel you, don't think about it, you've made it 9 months, make it 9 more. This girl isn't worth it if she dumped you after she said that. Go out meet other people, have fun and get her off your mind. I been NC for almost 2 months and im like 80-85 cleared up. I just started having dreams about her, and they make me sad of course but there is nothing you can do. Man up move on and go and have fun man. If you start thinking of her, think of all the bad things about her then you'll start hating her for it. have fun man Thebob
Author Miguelrg Posted October 29, 2009 Author Posted October 29, 2009 thanks man, Yeah the dreams are a killer, they come back and haunt ya when you least expect and can potential ruin a whole day if it's a bad dream
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