Pink Cupcakes Posted October 30, 2009 Posted October 30, 2009 Are you sure she likes chocolate? I actually know people who are not into chocolate. On a 2nd date, a guy once brought me a CD of cheesy 70s love songs (Barry Manilow, etc.) because we had talked about music and I said I had a weakness for 70s slow music. It was personalized and quirky, so I really enjoyed the thoughtful little gift that really didn't cost too much. However, I really think flowers show "I really like you as more than a friend" and are surefail for a 2nd date. I've received flowers on the first date and I think that's really nice. It shows the guy is really looking forward to going out with you. If you know she loves chocolate, I think it's a good idea. A gift of some sort is actually very in order here, especially considering she has to drive. You have a bit of ground to make up for there.
BG1985 Posted October 30, 2009 Posted October 30, 2009 Just play it safe and don't get her anything. You may or may not improve your status by getting her chocolates, but you definitely won't hurt yourself by not getting her chocolates.
Els Posted October 30, 2009 Posted October 30, 2009 I think you're overthinking it. Heck, it's not a diamond ring, it's just chocolates. Just a nice gesture. Stop worrying over what she'll think or whether or not you get bonus points for it.
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